Regarding nagging:

ramfex21 · 2018-07-08T10:36:21+00:00

The real question is: why do men rarely (if ever) nag their female partners?

My response to your question. If you feel the need to nag so much, perhaps it’s best not to be with the man. It is clear that all he would do is irritate you. He would also end up resenting you for the amount of Naging. The fact is, men don’t enter relationships to be nagged. They should leave if they are repeatedly naged by annoying af women.

You also must be a feminist if you automatically assume that in completing a chore that you have asked your partner to perform, that he would feel emasculated.

MetalGearHank · 2018-07-08T10:31:08+00:00

He'll do it. If he doesn't do it immediately, then it doesn't NEED to be done.

2018-07-08T10:29:48+00:00

I'm post wall and divorced

Ok bye.

tricky1992000 · 2018-07-08T10:36:47+00:00

It's not that type of nagging that is an issue. It's the "i'm not happy with my life, you sort it" type of nagging, it's the demand for constant nagging for you to some how sort out their unhappy life. Whether it be to move 200 miles away, get a new job or sell your property because she doesn't like the neighbours. Jeez it's not that easy and it's expensive, but hey, you're not paying for it.

Nagging instead of personal responsibility. That's the issue

Sol_Install · 2018-07-08T10:44:45+00:00

The answer he will do it when he feels like it. Fact is unless it's a priority, he will not treat it with urgency. If you wanted a man that did "chores" with a sense of urgency, you should have married one. Many here clean up after themselves just fine.

Also if you can easily do it yourself, then just do it.

UmbrellalikeWetness · 2018-07-08T15:29:22+00:00

No one can answer your question lady because YOU HAVEN'T ASKED ONE. Re-read your post carefully. You present hypotheticals and then... what?

SufficientGlass · 2018-07-08T10:33:34+00:00

I am just happy that there is no one to nag me. You seek your answers elsewhere.

MadPreacher1AD · 2018-07-08T11:28:29+00:00

r/relationshits is two doors down the hall on the right.

Just-Incase- · 2018-07-08T13:52:57+00:00

Why the hell would anyone put up with the nagging of a post wall divorcee. You would imagine she would have learned from one divorce already.

vercingetorix14 · 2018-07-08T15:05:01+00:00

The correct answer is A, but without the passive/aggressiveness. Usually when a woman does something she nagged a man about, she is throwing glares and throwing out little statements like "Why am I the only one who.....". If she simply did it herself it probably wouldn't have been an issue. That assumes of course that there isn't already a big prior history of begin a passive/aggressive ass when taking something on. In that case it might be assumed that you are doing it and just hiding it and will make the dude pay for it later.

A different question: Why is it only women that do the nagging? Why does a "Honey Do" list imply women asking men to do things?

When I want something done, I do it. I don't ask my wife to do it. But women see men as a sort of house robot whose primary purpose is helping her with whatever she wants done in life. Now, you could try the argument that she is just trying to get them both to work together to maintain the house or whatever, but the bulk of house chores that women do or nag men to do are things that women invented. If the man was living by himself it wouldn't actually need to get done because it doesn't actually matter (except to women). So women are always looking for men to share the load of giving them what they want, but never in the reverse.

Another problem is that women simply pile things on men without regard to load, order, or priority. The correct thing to do is to have a prioritized list of things you would like him to do and he can provide estimates on how long each will take. Men will likely take a stronger interest in completing something if they were committing to estimates and deadlines that they themselves helped form. It also prevents chore overload where there is simply more on his plate than he could (or should) accomplish which puts him in a state where he will be nagged regardless of effort so why bother. This is exactly how we run things at work. For some reason suggesting this though seems to really piss women off though.

selfism_mike · 2018-07-08T11:22:16+00:00

Nagging does not mean having some discomfort with the other person and voicing it. Nagging means the persistent verbal abuse of making it known to the other person that they don't measure up. The endless stream of complaints just to keep the other party on their toes. Nagging is an instrument of emotional and psychological abuse a woman deploys in order to prey on the generosity and willingness to action of men, and being permanently dissatisfied gives her in her own mind the right to contribute jackdiddly shit to the relationshit and be in the permanent position to be served and have her demands fulfilled.

Nagging is not the occasional voicing of a grievance one has with another person.

BTW, what I just stated here is blatantly obvious to any halfway mature person: the difference between voicing a complaint and verbal abuse. That you at your level of life experience haven't figured that out yet is just another drop into the bucket of arguments against dealing seriously on a mature level with women.

If women want to play purposefully stupid to secure their advantage then why do women complain about men going for the young one's instead of appreciating maturity? Apparently even after a relationship ending in divorce you folks don't learn anything, so the ability to mature is an on average non-existing trait in human females. So if we men just have to pick from a population of equally unqualified partners why not either not pick at all, or if we want to, why not pick one with less wrinkles and sagging? Be at least easy on the eyes, because you certainly will never be on the ears.

AllUpInYoGirl · 2018-07-08T10:36:12+00:00

I didn't even see a question being asked. Can you please edit and ask a question?

jamesebstuart79 · 2018-07-08T10:45:05+00:00

Man do yard work and maybe vacuum. Cave man enough for you.

PalacialVerbosity · 2018-07-08T19:39:21+00:00

Interesting. Thank you.

Title	Regarding nagging:
Author	PalacialVerbosity
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	July 8, 2018 10:23 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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