Gentlemen,

Please remember that we men get better with age. But that all starts with you and loving yourself first above all things.

Focus on your health, finances, careers and hobbies/passion.

Make sure you're eating healthy and have a routine exercise. Pushups, situps, walking, jogging, join a gym, etc. Most importantly, avoid stress.

Save your money and watch it grow. Ask yourself if it's an asset or liability. When you have expendable cash, spend it on things that you are passionate about.

Make sure you're in a career that you love going into work everyday. If not, don't slave yourself away. My advice is always look for a new opportunity to grow. Go out and get interviews and practice that skill, especially when you're not thirsty for a job. When you're not thirsty or desperate, you interview better.

Lastly, engage in a hobby(ies) and stick with it. Play an instrument, learn how to cook, woodburning, leatherworking, falconry, fishing, etc. Don't sit on your ass all the time. Get out there and do it.

As time goes by, you will eventually be in great shape, financially independent, in a career you love and skilled in an area you're passionate about.

Remember, you have all the time in the world. Time is on your side. Be patient and watch how your life will improve.

TL:DR Men gets better with age. Stay focus and never compromise on your health, finances, career and passion.