Don't make the same mistake I did. I've been married almost 10 years now. At first it was great. My wife was caring and supportive. But that only lasted about three years. She became very fat, not bothering with hygiene, stopped advancing her career, racked up 50K of student debt. There is no sex anymore. Now even the simplest things I ask her to do is an ordeal.

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She acts like loading the dish washer and laundry machines is equal to me buying us a house and cars, providing healthcare and paying for her education.

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I'm nagged to death all day long everyday, and questioned about everything I do. Dont be like me and trade 3 years of a false pretense for the rest of your life in anxiety, loneliness, and regret.