The wise man will, above all, strive after freedom from pain and annoyance, quiet and leisure, consequently a tranquil, modest life, with as few encounters as may be; and so, after a little experience of his so-called fellowmen, he will elect to live in retirement, or even, if he is a man of great intellect, in solitude. For the more a man has in himself, the less he will want from other people,--the less, indeed, other people can be to him. This is why a high degree of intellect tends to make a man unsocial. True, if quality of intellect could be made up for by quantity, it might be worth while to live even in the great world; but unfortunately, a hundred fools together will not make one wise man.

Fellow lone wolves and wolves in the making: Listen to Schopenhauer. Keep your head out of the trash (society and popular culture), disregard people who do not bring you happiness. The "happy" lifes all the people present on the outside and their facebook are in reality vain and hollow, for they exist only in the heads of others and the outside validation they receive is fake and will lead to nothing but bitterness in the long run. Look inside yourself, only you can give yourself true validation.