Serious Question: Prostitution vs PUA/Dating/Tinder/Clubbing etc. What’s a better deal?

martynhare · 2019-08-05T09:54:27+00:00

Prostitution: Cheap escort services don’t really cater for my specific sexual needs as I’m not stereotypical of most men. That and unlike other options, you can’t get high together. I’ve never really had an overly great time when I’ve tried it, plus the screening process is a collection of shit tests - exactly what I don’t want when my goal is an easy time.

PUA. I was using the “mystery method” before shit tests could identify it - it works in the correct scenarios, I used to practice new opening techniques on girls while waiting for the bus on the way back from college. It’s very third person. You act a role in the stage that is your life. Any achievements you make aren’t because you’re desirable but because you’re a great actor. Or that’s how I felt about it. But, it does lead to interesting places.

Online dating. That works too. You can easily find women who just want to have sex because they want to ride the cock carousel without any strings attached. It’s exactly what you’d expect. Everything’s good until you’re done and then you just want to go McDonald’s, eat a large, greasy meal and say goodbye. However, unlike other options it’s easy to find a girl you can get high with to do it.

Tinder. Absolutely useless for me. Like clubbing but without getting the grind. A friend of mine pretty much mastered getting weekly poon through it though. So it’s probably just me,

Clubbing. Useless. Beyond useless, For me at least. Best I ever got was girls doing the slut drop and a bit of spontaneous kissing while drunk.

Edit: I went MGTOW because my experiences have demonstrated that masturbation is often better than what women have to offer and I’m too red pilled to go back to believing in old fashioned romance.

anduxo · 2019-08-05T09:56:19+00:00

I like PUAing, for the pump and dump and for semi LTRs.

I only do street pickups during the day, where the success rate is really high. Most girls are up for a chat in the middle of the day, and I think I'm in a position to say that it's generally really easy to eventually sleep with them. My success rate at night clubs is really low, to the point that I don't even try anymore unless I'm drunk LOL.

I also like visiting prostitutes from time to time.

Now, to answer your question, I think it depends. Prostitutes are great to have a good time, cut through all the BS and get straight to the action, and don't worry about pregnancy, calling back, etc. The downside is that prostitutes tend to be less educated, have more mental issues, or come from low socio-economic backgrounds, so it's less pleasing to be around them once the action is over (there are exceptions, I've been with some really cool/smart ones). But 99% of them are only good for sex.

Picking up girls, on the other hand, provides with access to more educated women, usually with less mental issues, who can be fun to be around even when sex is not happening. You can also take them to the movies and do other activities that you cannot really do with a prostitute. The downside is that it takes more effort to seduce girls and keep them around, and of course there are other risks such as pregnancy.

So the answer is that it depends. If you just want a good time, no BS and no risks, a prostitute is much better. If you want more than sex, a sense of accomplishment, and some companionship, picking up girls is a better deal.

menlandedonthemoon · 2019-08-05T18:42:27+00:00

In my experience, the best results are to travel outside of the country. You can get model-level hookers for next to nothing.

eingebrannt · 2019-08-05T09:39:19+00:00

I did all. I don’t judge those who enjoy prostitution to its fullest because they are best at writing forums and giving information, but to me it’s a waste of time and money for a quick release hobby with no gain in the long run.

Clubbing is fun if you enjoy it, don’t force yourself to club. People who enjoy clubbing will recognize people who don’t and that is a turn off.

Dating and Tinder is almost the same as prostitution but it’s a sick game puas play that they’ve accomplished something hundreds of men have done before to that one girl. But fucking and boosting your ego raises your testosterone and HGH, so it’s good for your health as long as you use protection and stay away from the relatively slutty cum dumpsters.

Dating and the idea of PUA is about internal self improvement in the long run, so it’s killing two birds with one stone without going full monk mode.

Dmapguy · 2019-08-05T11:58:06+00:00

Whatever mating strategy minimizes risk for you personally.

misanthr0pe666 · 2019-08-05T13:04:01+00:00

My hand, ain't nothing better.

Jsjgiwwsddd · 2019-08-05T19:02:14+00:00

Do it yourself and find out what’s best to you

mgtow-Dream · 2019-08-14T20:24:57+00:00

prostitution is fine . i realise there will be some men on here who say still giving them money. who cares its honest exchange. you aint getting tricked out of your home or savings like you get with house wifes.

Misogynes · 2019-08-05T20:03:50+00:00

With prostitution, she’s doing it for money. She might like you. She most likely won’t even if you’re attractive and arousing as a man.

But if she’s talented, she can fake it. Just like any other girl who pretends to like you. Because:

Unless we’re in the top 5 to at the lowest 10% of men, are we truly desirable to modern women?

No.

I’m an ex PUA. I was successful at it, mostly because I’m tall and good looking. What you say doesn’t matter if you’re tall and good looking, and hence, PUA is pretty much bullshit — it won’t work too well if you’re short and ugly.

A better approach is to invest heavily into self-improvement:

munch red-pills and study evolutionary and behavioral psychology, not just for picking up sluts, but to understand yourself and other people and society better — the sluts will follow
hit the gym and get swole, not just for picking up sluts, but to improve your physical and mental health and motivation, which will also improve your friendships and career and life on the whole — the sluts will follow
excel in your career(s) and make a shit ton of money, not just for picking up sluts, but to be as free and independent from society and circumstance as possible, better holding the reins in all of your future decisions as the master of your own destiny — the sluts will follow

Do these things and hoes will begin to flock to you regardless of your cheesy lines or fuzzy hats. And you’ll get so much more than just pussy... you’ll get your shit together, which will continue paying dividends for the remainder of your life.

Start thinking 3 years out. Sit down and write your bio/resume/stats for who and what you’d like to be in 3 years. Make it epic. And then make it happen.

Pursue yourself, and the sluts will follow.

Title	Serious Question: Prostitution vs PUA/Dating/Tinder/Clubbing etc. What’s a better deal?
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Date	August 5, 2019 8:59 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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Pursue yourself, and the sluts will follow.