Hi guys,

So i have this long date friend i knew since high school (We're 26 yo now) that is living abroad in the same country as me. She graduated recently and is looking for a job. As a good friend and since we were chatting for a while now, i proposed to host her the time she could find a job and a place in Paris. She accepted. You guys should know that i just moved to this new place and that i also just started my first job, so i kinda sacrificed all my little personnal goals i had since a teenage (Having my own place that i can decorate as i want etc...) and my comfort to do her this favour.

As soon as she came, she started busting my balls about what to buy for eating, how to cook, she started giving me religious advices (She's very religious and i'm atheist) and many other annoying things. On top of that, we were having a little relationship where we were having no PIV sex but she was immediately getting guilty and depressed after it, she's schyzophrenic about that, since she wants to do sex but it's forbidden in her religion. She also wanted me to marry her... To be honest guys, i wanted to let her believe i want something serious just to get in her panties... But never really did, never lied to her or told her i want things to get serious.

From time to time, she would get upset for nothing and start doing her luggages very late at night (Cause she knows i will not let her go so late), while i was waking up the next day for work very early, it was exhausting for me because i had to calm her etc... And at those times i regretted so much my decision to host her!

On sunday, she got angry about me telling her to stop giving me religious advices since even my parents don't do. She didn't talk to me all day. Then she asked me to go out with her... I was like, please just go out and let me alone. When she went out, i sent her a message telling her that next weekend a friend is coming and that she should think about going to a friends place or something. She immediately went back and started doing her luggages... I told her "Why you're going now??", she didn't want to hear anything. So i just let her leave this time, i was like, better have this on sunday or she will do me like she always do and have a crisis through the week at 2 am on a working day.

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She already succeeded an interview and is going through recruitment process. My mother told me that it's a good thing she left and that i did her a big favour hosting her for two weeks in Paris and bearing all her crisis.

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She called me today, asking me if she could come back and pay half rent with me. I told her that it's not about rent but more about the place that isn't fit for two persons, plus our relationship isn't that good since it's going against her religious beliefs etc... She told me okay, and called back 15 mins after saying that she will block me everywhere and that i deceived her.

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I'm feeling really guilty because i feel like i should help her in this tough period (She don't have that much money and is doing interviews), but she surely does have other friends she can ask to live with momently, and i don't get why she would want to get back here with me if nothing is going well and if she's always regretting what we're doing etc... I don't get the point.

Sorry for the long and messy story.

The thing is, if she could just prepare for her interviews, keep quiet and respect me and my place, i wouldn't really bother, but she really started interfering with my life and i thought "Man you just wanted to help and now you're having problems you didn't even ask for".

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TL:DR; Proposed to host a friend that just graduated the time she finds a job or a place. We got in a romantic relationship where we do kisses and all that but no penetration, but she would get angry about it because it's forbidden in her religion. Plus she started fucking up my comfort zone and not respecting my place, telling me what to eat and what to buy etc. She tried to leave many times but i knew it was just a crisis so calmed her down. On sunday she did a crisis again and i just let her leave. I'm feeling guilty because maybe she's in a tough situation and needs a place to stay in... But my mom is telling me that what i did is enough, and i'm, PERSONALLY, feeling relief to be in my place alone (Plus i just moved), but i'm also feeling guilty, due to emotional attachment.

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Should i feel guilty or not?