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"Smart men don't get married"

westnblue

January 16, 2019
57 upvotes
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Title "Smart men don't get married"
Author

westnblue

Upvotes 57
Comments 39
Date January 16, 2019 5:16 PM UTC
(7 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/agnbx9/smart_men_dont_get_married/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/smart-men-dont-get-married.422735
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Comments

[–]Thrwwwwaway617 points18 points19 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

I was talking to a guy who literally married last year (which should still be the honeymoon phase) and he was saying love doesn't exist.

It's so disappointing that the strong, successful marriages I see with my older family members are impossible to create now.

[–]UndifferentiatedHoe0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

R u sure they weren’t keeping appearances? My mom treated my dad like shit but no one knew.

[–]Thrwwwwaway60 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah I've been around them enough and I'm good at picking up on that too.

[+]qoning-7 points-6 points-5 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I don't see that as mutually exclusive. Quite the opposite, the sooner you realize that marriage isn't about some mythical concept of love, the sooner you can build your relationship to last. Love simmers away, but two smart people can build a life that works.

[–]xkulp85 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The sooner you realize she's there to extract every resource you possess from you that some other guy doesn't have more of, the sooner you can nope the fuck out.

[–]Thrwwwwaway64 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Well what I was saying is I see all these current examples of people unhappy or regretting marriage. This is contrasted by the people I know who got married 20+ years ago and are happy.

I'll be the first to admit I'm not really MGTOW. It just makes me afraid no matter how scrutinizing I am I won't be able to find a faithful, compatible wife.

[+][deleted] 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Thrwwwwaway61 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I want kids (pass on my genes) and IDK if I can find a girl who would have kids without marriage.

[–]harmonic_blast 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Bone Tomahawk (2015) (imdb)

Here's a torrent (yify): https://yts.am/movie/bone-tomahawk-2015

I'm seeding the 720p copy (seedbox).

[–]rageofsamus1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love yify quality.

[+]dwattzdrummer91-34 points-33 points-32 points 7 years ago* (30 children) | Copy Link

Marriage is a beautiful, powerful, and spiritual thing to me. I can't wait to have a wife. I don't get all the hate about it. Most guys have no idea how to court a woman. Nor do they listen and understand their language to keep them. You attract who you are guys. I think divorce wouldn't be as bad if we put sex off for a much later time and worked on getting to know each other instead. Also a marriage founded on Christ and him as the centerpiece is something beautiful that can't be taken down with ease. Too much hype about just hooking up and never settling down. Maybe I'm weird. I long for a deep, intimate, companionship.

[–]NVCowboy20 points21 points22 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

What you long for is not what you’ll likely get. Most of us have been where you are, and reality kicked us in the groin.

I’d advise you print out your comment and save it in a safe place. Read it again in maybe ten years time and I’d wager your perspective will have done a 180°.

Good luck finding that unicorn.

[+]dwattzdrummer91-14 points-13 points-12 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

All things are possible through Christ Jesus. No need, what I want is out there, and I won't settle for anything less. I stopped with the excuses and started doing the work to become the powerful and confident man I wanted to be. A defeatists attitude will never get you anywhere. I know what I am looking for. And I know the crazy types now to avoid at all costs haha. But thank you. I know God will provide her to me when he sees fit. He made me after all.

[–]Tercalerc8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus was a MGTOW. Just sayin lol

[–]markentingh5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Investing time and money in a woman, for What? So you don't feel alone? For a family? For sex? For humanity? Good luck with any of that logic. You better get yourself a six figure income or inherit a large amount of money because you'll need it to keep the woman happy. It doesn't matter how well you treat her, if you don't have the funds, she won't have any fun with you, and next thing you know, she'll cling onto someone who can give her the fun and funds she "deserves". That is the logic of a woman. AWALT.

[+]dwattzdrummer91-15 points-14 points-13 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

My god full of excuses dude... You have a million reasons why it won't work. What you fear you will attract. YouTube Coach Corey Wayne. Read his book how to be a 3% man? 3% of men get what they want in life, the other 97% makes excuses and complains. I used to be that Debby downer guy with women. I used to be a doormat, the nice guy. You have to treat them like a cat. Men are like dogs. You attract who you are. If you are a catch a woman will notice that. Especially as they get older I am seeing too.

[–]Life-is-Crazy3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Experience will be humbling

[+]dwattzdrummer91-6 points-5 points-4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I've seen enough to get it man. It seems this page is filled with beta men I am finding. Everyone just hates women. I'm starting to wonder if this movement is just an excuse to stop trying. It lacks substance. What you want is out there, it's a numbers game. Know thy self in order to attract what you desire. I'm all for screw women who just use men and ruin them. But come on, the comment I said above got so much hate it's comical. Is everyone on here just a biter old man? Jeez.. 🙄

[–]Life-is-Crazy1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey. Why dont you man up and send me half of all your savings. Dont be a beta, dont make excuses. Obey me or else youre a hateful little bitch. Got it?

[–]Pgh_Yinzer11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

If you're serious then you're definitely in the wrong place. You're not gonna convince anyone here of that.

[–]dwattzdrummer91-3 points-2 points-1 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

And that's a shame, because biblically marriage is a beautiful thing. Most marriages I can bet never put God and Christ as the focal points. It's always sex, money, or something.

[–]Pgh_Yinzer7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah it used to be that way until the government got involved. I get what you're saying though.

[–]dwattzdrummer912 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're not wrong. The court system is entirely pro wife. The stories I've heard of Father's losing it all...

[–]harmonic_blast 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

biblically marriage is a beautiful thing

Sure but in the end nothing trumps female nature.

Women are not spiritual beings. They are material beings.

[–]dwattzdrummer911 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think it might be American women that are like this more than anything. Well biblically the man leads and courts the woman. He knows his place and duties as she does with hers. Feminist wanna screw all of that up and look at what we have..

[–]balancedben 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You're a weak deballed man unworthy of respect.

[–]dwattzdrummer91-1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I guess you're an atheist then 😂

[–]balancedben 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No but I don't worship some buttfucker than burns people of other faiths and none at all. That's horrible and hardly anything to be proud of.

[–]dwattzdrummer91-3 points-2 points-1 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Haha man you haven't read the Bible at all. We were given grace as a chance of redemption of our sin. Yes Christ is the truth, gasp I know how dare I. Hey if he wasn't right, he wouldn't have been killed. Truth hurts. Your language and attitude shows you have a bitter heart. Jesus can heal that bro, he did for me.

[–]balancedben 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I have and a god construct that is limited to one racial/cultural format rendering all those adhering to ideologies of their own kindred hell bound is pure demonic and unworthy of respect. Talk about being bitter. That would be your god construct.

https://www.near-death.com/images/graphics/religious/christian/jesus_casting_child_into_hell2.jpg

[–]Unexpecter3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Either you forgot the /s at the end, or you're in wrong sub.

[–]freeman845 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This is a fantasy that you've been sold growing up. A woman does not love you like you can love them: unconditionally. If you cannot provide for her due to injury or sickness, shes gone. Once you get that hard truth through your head maybe you'll wake up to reality.

[–]dwattzdrummer91-1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe you are attracting the wrongs types for a reason? I know I was in the past. Nah it's not a fantasy, I set my mind to something and find what I need to be happy. No excuses, there will always be poor me people saying life is hard blah blah. People are more comfortable with their pain than to feel pleasure.

[–]CastandRefused2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women are hypergamous by nature and go for men that have things to provide for them. They do not love unconditionally. But keep believing in your fairy tale love story if you must.

[–]CJ_Hunter454 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Dude, even the Bible is red pilled and knows that a society that tolerates uncontrollable hypergamy eventually corrupts the majority of women, let God send you a wife sure

[–]Yasai1012 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

No

[–]dwattzdrummer91-1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Man that was deep, real compelling argument there. 😂

[–]Yasai1016 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't argue silly notions, if you want deep companionship learn to love your self and your own company.. or get a dog. Otherwise good luck playing Russian roulette.

[–]dwattzdrummer91-2 points-1 points0 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Get a dog?? Haha omg did you really just suggest that? 😂 Dogs seem to be perfect for needy people that need validation every second that can't be alone. You don't have to work for their love. They love everyone. And they are so much work. Women on tinder are all dog mom's I am learning. I do love myself but to make my life even better would be great to have a companion to tag along with. Get a cat if you want to learn independence and to enjoy alone time with yourself. Women are like cats, study them and you will understand a woman better. Dogs will hinder that growth.

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