Long story short. My divorce has been fairly easy so far, some rough patches, but got past them. Today my ex picked up the last of her stuff...and the cat. I have cared for and loved this cat for the past 8yrs. Seeing the confusion and worry in her(cat) eyes, and her stressed out about being put in a carrier tore me apart today.

Just needed to get it out. Thanks to anyone listening.

Edit: getting my cat back! Poor thing is miserable, hates my ex now, and is terrified of their dog.