Lets cut to the chase, I have been out of the Marine Corps for one year and one month. I married my wife in Nov of 2015 so we've been married for a few years now. We absolutely do not have anything in common. At first (she is Australian) we were very much attracted to each other, Aussie and a Marine, what could go wrong? Fast forward to today, I am now going to college full time, I am going to the gym everyday. She is lazy and has no drive or motivation to do anything to better herself as a human other than go on vacations, which I am just sick of. We've left the country and gone to various places at least 4 times so far this year and shes trying to swindle me into a trip to the Bahamas in May. Alternatively I'd love to go back home during that time and spend time with my family. I just feel like we have separate life paths and although we are definitely best friends, I am not sure how to proceed. We've talked about divorce, we've talked about not getting lawyers involved but I am not sure if shes just baiting me.

I have had a lot of girls at college give me their number/snapchat. Unfortunately my wife knew my password to my phone and found out that a bunch of women were talking to me, or I was talking to them. My wife has definitely hit the wall, but I'm a blonde hair blued eyed jacked white dude in Miami and the amount of pussy being thrown my way is insane.

Basically, should I soldier on with my wife (best friend) or should I start to covertly plan an exit and move on? I don't want her out of my life, but currently she is just more of a thorn in my side than anything. Maybe I'm selfish. Today she asked me why I cant just be a "Yes Man".

Any advice from MGTOW would be helpful. I'm lost.

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