The divorce reddit

ConstantChinner · 2018-07-06T17:40:35+00:00

Don't forget, when you read what a woman posts about her divorce, she is keeping things from the post and definitely lying in some way. If she stops affection and sex with her husband, why the fuck should he stick around?

androenergy · 2018-07-06T17:46:23+00:00

Men marry women hoping they'll stay the same; women marry men and demand that they change.

strongandhappy · 2018-07-06T17:48:42+00:00

This is why, despite my limited personal experience, I really believe men and women love differently. Women are after children, once they get them they can only put in minimal effort to keep the man happy, because it does nothing for them emotionally. Women lack gratitude and affection, you are only there to provide for her and her children (yes, hers, she will take them from you). If women appreciated and loved their husbands they would be happy to provide what makes the husband happy, but it's clear as day they resent giving up anything.

MgtowisDaWey · 2018-07-06T17:52:52+00:00

They resent the man because he has forced responsibility upon them and expects something of them. Women can’t stand responsibility. It’s like a daughter who hates her father because he wants her to be a good girl. What do most girls do? They rebel against daddy. It’s in their nature. They want no responsibilities and to be pampered while being able to fuck whoever they want with no consequences. They never grow out of the “I hate my dad because he wants me to be a good girl” stage.

Docbear64 · 2018-07-06T18:20:57+00:00

A married woman has a man by the balls legally , socially , and financially . Unless it's a situation where the man is " better" than her [ usually socially] and marries down she has no reason to entertain being the best woman she can for him .

Of course you're gonna ask , " what about love" and the truth is for men largely love from a woman towards us is boiled down to what we do for them . The thing is ..... that value doesn't and can't last in our current marriage system. In fact I'd argue women are incentivized to divorce men . You can marry the man, get his paycheck , share a home with him and play the role of wife . Or you can divorce the man, have your own space, entertain a carousel of cocks, and still get his paycheck ..... Te kids and him might be affected but what is a little discomfort for them for a womans happiness?

I'm convinced marriage is a scam for men and has been for the past 30 years or so at least.

Men get no advantages and tremendous liabilities for what? To keep hanging out with the same chick you've been hanging out with ?

Sol_Install · 2018-07-06T18:26:01+00:00

I firmly believe that some people shouldn't have had kids. That they would still have stayed married, and if they were happy at all, would still be happy. The thing with kids is that is doesn't stop until they go to sleep. I dated a woman with kids. I was tired of dealing with it. Tired of trying to keep things under control. Tired of the messes. Tired of trying to discipline. People really do underestimate how much having children can put a drain on things. I read about women complaining about being mothers all the time. Frustrated as hell with dealing with kids. I've read about people seeing other people who have kids live a terrible and stressed life.

And you don't understand men. Men don't just want "sex", they want passionate, dirty, hot sex. A starfish that lays in bed and does nothing is not fun or attractive.

UmbrellalikeWetness · 2018-07-06T18:11:30+00:00

Wow that sub is filled with despair.

RetiSetGo · 2018-07-06T20:44:45+00:00

Never understood the reason for marrying for sex.

A woman has sex with you (supposedly) if she is attracted to you and/or loves you. If she declines to do so because of the absence of a legally binding government contract with financial implications, then it's not love. That alone should strike out 99% of marriages.

But let's say she's the greatest sex ever and you don't want to "lose" her. Well the thing is, you can always get better sex from paid professionals, and it costs a lot less in the long run. And if the threat is that you'll "lose" her even before marriage, then that risk is even higher after marriage once you toss away all your cards and are just another beta slave while she fucks some guy she's actually attracted to.

Basically, sex is a terrible reason to get married.

Even more basically, never get married.

Futureman999 · 2018-07-06T23:19:26+00:00

A few decades of feminism taught women we owe them everything and they owe us nothing.

Samsquamch117 · 2018-07-06T23:18:38+00:00

I went through the first page and it seems like men asking for advice and women looking for emotional tampons

PeruvianRug · 2018-07-06T23:48:56+00:00

Personally, I wouldn't enjoy a woman just 'giving' me sex she wasn't into. I'd rather just fuck a doll or my own hand at that point.

What I see happen to a lot of women after their first child is them just giving up on themselves. Long before stumbling across MGTOW I noticed how often it was that I'd see a decently handsome, fit man with his whale of a wife pushing a pram. She had just let herself go. So many of them let themselves go.

Then, of course, she feels less sexy and there's no way he hasn't lost attraction to her. So she feels less inclined to have sex and probably consoles herself by eating more. All that weight probably doesn't help anybody's libido, either. And men have been told over and over to 'love her for who she is'.

Well I say BULLSHIT. Marriage is a partnership and each side has their own role to play. Part of hers is making an effort to stay healthy and relatively attractive. It could be his role to be that way too if that's part of the agreement. That doesn't mean plastic surgery or extreme body modifications. Just eat in moderation, get some exercise and look after your skin and hair. It's not that fucking hard.

It's taboo now for any man to tell his partner to look after herself or that -GASP- appearances do matter.

xxCirian · 2018-07-06T22:02:45+00:00

I remember an old teacher of mine had like 7 kids before she got divorced, and then found some poor dude to marry her... They look happy, but i dunno.

IronLyon77 · 2018-07-07T04:58:47+00:00

Marriage is the Temple of Doom. The wife rips out your heart and feeds it to the Goddess Kali.

laptopdragon · 2018-07-07T05:06:59+00:00

not only do women want sex, but they want their man to NOT have sex.

they use it as a weapon for guilt, power and punishment. They push men to cheat on them for the easy divorce.

Belrick_NZ · 2018-07-07T05:19:53+00:00

Simps. The love of your life may not fuck you or blow you or give anal...

But sure as shit she wpuld do it to a stranger she was trying to start a relationship with

Title	The divorce reddit
Author	XFinalPhantom
Upvotes	107
Comments	23
Date	July 6, 2018 5:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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