“The One”

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2019-08-12T03:03:35+00:00

It was a tag team. My ex wife took care of 90%, and my post-divorce rebound sealed the deal.

GHOSTBAUXTER · 2019-08-12T03:46:59+00:00

For me, it wasnt a "one". It was years of noticing the same behaviour in every woman i dated. The vain pursuits, expensive dinners, shallow personality, toxic shit testing. It was all too much. My most recent ex pushed me over the edge. She claimed she was pregnant after we broke up only to reveal lies and then threatened me with suicide to get back with me. Now i simply stick to whores when i feel like i need anything phsyical and enjoy my money.

StormOfHoney · 2019-08-12T03:15:48+00:00

An unemployed, lazy, entitled, narcissistic, single mother with 3 kids to 2 different guys and mental health issues that I wasted almost 2 years of my life on.

"Thank you for teaching me to recognize red flags"

MenGoingTOWin · 2019-08-12T02:27:40+00:00

Who was "the one" who turned you MGTOW?

Me.

If you could tell her anything, what would you say?

I'm not a her. I do talk to myself, a lot. I guess, in a word: "Yes."

It's a beautiful life.

Sure is. Keep living the dream, brother!

Patricijaobjectdude · 2019-08-12T02:57:53+00:00

I've been mgtow my entire life. The only thing that changed for me after discovering that mgtow was a thing is that I was no longer ashamed or stressed about my lifestyle.

There is no "the one" who opened my eyes, it's all women and all men as I observed how the gender dynamics are played today. Growing up with a mother who wore the pants in the house, a pussy whipped dad and two sisters also was extremely eye opening.

AvailableDiscipline6 · 2019-08-12T05:49:47+00:00

For me it was a combination of things:

The relationship between my parents (being together just for me and my sister, but fighting everytime)
Watching the relationship between my best friend and her girlfriend. She sucked his energy everytime she could. He had no free time.
Being aware of myself as a child. I wouldnt want a child like myself. What a waste of time is raising children. Its best to focus on myself and never have kids.
Being aware of how expensive is life. I'm too lazy for making this tough life tougher than it is, by maintaining others
My first girlfriend (I was 23, I was very old!, now im 31). She manipulated me everytime she had the chance. She had a male best friend and I was aware how she used him. She used her body as a price to obtain the things she wanted. She was moody as hell !!
Next girlfriend was kind of ugly. I lost interest in women because I know i'm no Chad so I can only get women that are at most a 6. I prefer to be alone if that's the max I can get.

TaurusTitancock · 2019-08-12T11:01:24+00:00

I never had a realationship cause i always get dumped before that.

whenever i have a crush on a woman it is really bad, so far that i get suicidal thoughts.

But at 25 i gave up on women and it was my best decision i ever mad. i'm now 33 and found peace in being alone, getting in shape and do the things i want. I'm in germany so having sex with a hooker is easy, but banging a fleshlight feels better.

perfect__zero · 2019-08-12T04:25:28+00:00

Always been MGTOW. Only discovered it was as a collective mentality a few years ago. Never asked a woman out and never will because they're all the same replete with the same traits devoid of individuality. They are like warm beer - appetising to look out but shit to taste.

GetGetFresh · 2019-08-12T06:34:32+00:00

No one. It’s like a sudden realization as if the reality you were living in shifted one plane over and you realize you have been living in a matrix

Otwasocks · 2019-08-12T08:30:38+00:00

Few relationships under my belt and they all slightly pushed me to go MGTOW. But especially the last one. I’d just love to say ‘you and the rest of your thots missed out! Glad I got out unscathed! ‘

misanthr0pe666 · 2019-08-12T04:37:28+00:00

If I could tell her anything, I wouldn't.

NAILmg42 · 2019-08-12T05:26:41+00:00

Myself. Shit was obvious to me. Too many fatties, crazies and no authourity with 50% divorce. Fucking Brad Pitt got divorced.

For me the oath was seeing Bill Burr in Infowars and then six months later seeing ton Leykis recommended in YouTube from Bill Burr association and then Sandman and Stardusk (my favourite) and then TFM.

17O8 · 2019-08-12T10:45:08+00:00

The lil bitch sucked dick in exchange programme in Netherlands. Long story, not worth mentioning

Grant1412 · 2019-08-12T12:16:11+00:00

It was a double combo. 10 years of dead bedroom marriage and then the most precious friend I've ever had, Rachel Dawson.

I would very much like a very thorough conversation with Rachel. She very much owes me that. I do have things to say to her. She always made sure I felt unheard. She never explained to me how she could do what she did. I do know now.

I've learned a lot and I understand the truth about women. But I just need to hear it all from her. Of course she understood that and used it to injure me more. She is utterly remorseless. Her brutal betrayal was devastating. She broke me. The pain of her betrayal broke me. I watched her casually, so casually, attack me and my family using corporate and legal systems I couldn't comprehend. I didn't know why she was so maliciously callous. I needed to know why and I just couldn't understand. People told me to fight back, but I didn't want to. At one point, she had become the only person I had, my only family. I didn't want to fight her. But she had placed me on a battlefield right when she was all that I had, and I needed to understand how she could do that.

I tried and tried to make sense of what she did. I'd put together reasoning and think I was starting to understand, but I just couldn't make myself believe that a fellow human being could be so horrifically cruel. So I couldn't reconcile what she had done. So, I kept trying and trying and trying and trying and trying. The whole time, my heart kept thumping in my chest keeping me awake most nights and when I did sleep, I would have graphic and terrifying nightmares of her. I actually still have the nightmares of her most nights.

I now understand. The reason she was able to be so remorselessly callous is because she is a woman. The whole world is a terrifying place. They are predators.

So to conclude, it's more about what I need her to tell me, than what I would say to her.

DashingWolf · 2019-08-12T05:45:09+00:00

My life, every post on this sub echoes memories I wish I didn't have. The only suffering I have not endured is divorce rape, but I might of well gone through it after what my younger self was to blind to see at first. Then the patterns I noticed. Then the rage. And once I stepped away from pursuing pussy and socueties standards,, I noticed some else, peace and happiness.

Title	“The One”
Author	FlyGuwop
Upvotes	19
Comments	19
Date	August 12, 2019 2:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/cp63v4/the_one/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/the-one.410716 https://theredarchive.com/post/410716

Comments