Theres no going back for me

somuchluv2give · 2018-08-25T11:15:36+00:00

I used to think like that but now I look at it more like this I will use basketball as analogy:

For example I played basketball since grade 2, and at first when I played I thought maybe one day I would make the nba and make millions of dollars. So it made sense for me to put everything into it.

This parallels with your first real relationship, where u have dreams of marriage and kids, u put everything into it.

By around grade 9, I realized I wasn’t good enough to ever make the nba. But I had developed a love for the game and kept practicing and playing even though I knew realistically I’d never make money or a career from it.

This parallels with when your gf cheats and monkeybranches and u get red pilled on female nature and gynocentric society. You realize marriage and kids will not happen. But you’ve developed a love for sex and u enjoy female companionship. So u pump and dump, fwb, maybe even date.

Now, at 30, all that basketball has caught up with me. It’s taken a toll on my body. And what has all those thousands of hours practicing and playing done for me? Well I can shoot a three pointer really good, and I had a lot of fun over the years and made a couple friends but that’s about it. At this point I don’t play real games anymore, I just occasionally shoot around in the gym.

Similarly with women, what has all the fwbs, flings, one nighters and gfs got me? Well I had a lot of fun along the way and I’m really good at eating pussy now. Got some presents and shit too. But other than that mostly just feel empty. I don’t really put any effort into getting women anymore, I just occasionally fuck them when they throw themselves at me.

Sex and women are just a part of life, there’s good and bad with them, just like playing a sport. There’s always a chance you get injured. If u can minimize the bad and maximize the good then girls can be a fun distraction.

I don’t think it’s healthy to just shun women entirely. Sex is healthy and good for u. I find the energy that women bring into my life to be a good thing. My life is very ordered and boring, and I find women bring a lot of chaos and excitement, which can be good in moderation so long as I can control it and contain it.

Once u remove love, marriage and kids from the equation, the relationship becomes very simple, u just have this little fucktoy that u have to take care of like a pet and if she causes too much problems u send her away.

Luther-Burnett · 2018-08-25T12:33:30+00:00

As I experience the benefits of MGTOW life, I think of having a relationship less and less often, even seldom. A peaceful day to day life enjoying country nature with my dogs. Setting goals and measuring their accomplishment with no compromise, criticism or opposition. Enjoying my leisure including travel where and how I like. Sometimes this is an evening hour watching my bees bringing pollen & nectar home, sometimes a well planned trip and sometimes a night of solitude and quiet at home. Having financial security and adequate funds to not worry. All of these contribute to my feeling of calm & well-being and have been achieved as MGTOW. And they're my motivation to keep on being MGTOW.

Pete_Maverick · 2018-08-25T11:34:12+00:00

No benefits at all, even sex is denied after a couple of months.

WolfgangBreitweit · 2018-08-25T13:31:56+00:00

The question is easy to answer: there is no reason to be with a gf/wife, if you can value yourself and your achievements without the aid of a weakling.

wyu427 · 2018-08-25T12:49:24+00:00

Marriage is nothing but a legal agreement for them to take it all from you

Title	Theres no going back for me
Author	DankJaeger
Upvotes	58
Comments	10
Date	August 25, 2018 9:41 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9a5nj0/theres_no_going_back_for_me/
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