Thought she would be different, Got cheated on

DangZagnut · 2019-11-21T04:10:12+00:00

I have sympathy for you, even though you tried to be defensive about it as a reverse psychology effect. Don't do that.

You fucked up.

One of the reasons MGTOW is great, to me, is that it is composed of men, by and large, that admit to fuck ups. Feminists, only admit to fuck ups when they didn't manage to suck all the money out of a victim.

So you fucked up, you knew better, and you still tried anyway. Nothing really wrong with that, it's normal to have hope and wanting reality to meet that dream, but reality doesn't care what anyone dreams it is.

You know an appropriate time to start dating is? About 2 hours after clinical death. That's when you should start dating.

NathanHollister · 2019-11-21T04:18:25+00:00

Thanks for sharing. You might save someone

v0lvic · 2019-11-21T04:48:29+00:00

the blue is strong in this one. "hope I can get over her"....wisdom(mgtow) will temper your heart or the "fire" will.

MoonshineGuy859 · 2019-11-21T09:41:47+00:00

Don't date. Fuck, yes, date, no. No girl under 30 is gonna be monogamous unless you find a super devout christian chick who is being homeschooled and kept tabs on.

Why are you "in a relationship" at 18? That's the last thing you should be doing.

All women are like that dude. Do not allow this keep you depressed. Go bang another chick and you will feel better.

Then start a business. Learn a skill. Begin building your empire man!!

And if you are going to continue banging chicks which you probably are, go read Blackdragon's blog.

roxon89 · 2019-11-21T04:19:03+00:00

How old are you?

AcrobaticAge · 2019-11-21T06:33:30+00:00

I hope you never deal with what I have

Many of us have lived through that and worse.

Don't worry, though. If we are all still alive and well, so will you.

Feels like shit for quite a time, maybe even years, but you'll get well. Trust me.

scaramellozzi · 2019-11-21T09:18:45+00:00

That's why a man nowadays should never invest in a woman. It's your turn for sex, nothing more, nothing less. If she wants tenderness she can buy herself a cat.

MaestroLogical · 2019-11-21T09:27:43+00:00

AWALT is a mantra for this exact reason.

The chemical soup of drugs that you get pumped full of have the tendency to over ride things like common sense and rationality.

Using the AWALT mantra helps to keep you on track. Whenever you think you've found a unicorn, whenever those chemicals are letting you feel like 'she's different'

Say it to yourself;

AWALT brother.

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-11-21T14:37:09+00:00

I can sympathize. Even while on this sub, posting and commenting I still believed in NAWALT at times but reality bit harder and harder everytime with seeing posts on here and experiencing women's behavior first-hand. As time went I realized that unicorns don't exist and never will. I got me and that's all I need.

Learn from this. It will be difficult and it may bring you to where you want to end it all - DON'T. This is just a bump in your life. There greater out there fo you to discover, you just need to keep going.

tmattm · 2019-11-21T15:11:03+00:00

You fall, now learn to stand up again. I feel with you. You have your heart broken. But you sound like your will is stronger now. Use this experience to get wiser and understand what life YOU want!

teslaistheshit · 2019-11-21T16:47:42+00:00

I’m so destroyed and broken by this, I feel lost and alone

Time is your friend. Don't beat yourself up. She was cheating on her ex with you as well so that poor bastard is in the same boat. Just have fun man and don't get emotionally invested again. It's that simple.

Mythrobo · 2019-11-21T17:31:38+00:00

I plan on making my best attempt to find "the one" and if she cheats, then i guess that just proves everything. Dont get depressed, be happy that you wont make the same mistake again because you now realise the truth. I hope i can find a 1 in a million, but if i cant then meh im done

Mikeytikey123 · 2019-11-21T11:19:23+00:00

Holy smokes we should make a subreddit that advocates for prevention of these abuses, and encourages men to go their own way

DaddyAF1989 · 2019-11-21T12:45:35+00:00

How did you find out?

Title	Thought she would be different, Got cheated on
Author	B_Rad_G-
Upvotes	36
Comments	34
Date	November 21, 2019 3:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/dzdmjx/thought_she_would_be_different_got_cheated_on/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/thought-she-would-be-different-got-cheated-on.387366 https://theredarchive.com/post/387366

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