True MGTOW

hiper4 · 2017-06-03T21:55:25+00:00

Hello brother. You see a lot of posts about women because it simply is part of the 'growing up' of MGTOW. A lot of members are people who are leaving women or in other words they are in the process of going their own way. The road is being build as we go but yeah the main road behind us where we took a right turn is still within viewing distance.

WhistlingAlong · 2017-06-03T23:09:09+00:00

Anger and confusion is required for acceptance and everyone has a different threshold for each.

I'm a young adult in my early 30s. Good parents, debt free, have a good career and prefer acquaintances rather than friends. Extroverted but a true loner is the best combination I have attained. Optimist with experiences, gun owner, dabble in stocks and crypto currency and buy awesome shit like new tech, video games and accessories. I can kill on the dance floor and prefer a superior setting usa cannot give me for a nightlife so I just chill.

Matter a fact I think I'll hit up my local 7/11 for a strawberry shortcake because I can.

w33tad1d · 2017-06-04T04:48:36+00:00

to me /r/mgtow is a transitional place.

Men come here when they are like "WTF, I didnt beat my wife and she left me and took all the cash and prizes on the way out. I wasnt perfect, but I wasnt bad".

That is how I found mgtow. I was a good husband and wife monkey branched out. I was thinking, I was a "nice guy" like i was told. How did my wife have an affair and bounce and then tell everyone i was "emotionally abusive".

So, to your question. This place is transitional. Your question is like someone showing to to drug rehab saying "if rehab is going to make my life better why is everyone talking about how bad their life is and how bad drugs are?" B/C all those that got clean left the group. to me /r/mgtow is like rehab. We talk about the negatives and the hope. When one goes their own way, they dont need to be here. they will be happy and this isnt their place. I will know I have "made it" when I dont even check this sub anymore. I will be on my own path and have left this transitional place.

Sure, there will be those who choose to be mentors that stick around to guide and help. For me in a year or so, I will be gone from this sub. I hope most of us here today will be gone too. Thats part of the process. We will be onto bigger and better things.

Each will choose what their own way is. Some might become mountain clibers and they will move to that sub. Others will become subsistence farmers and they will be on that sub. You will become X and will be be on X sub. I will be gone, b/c i will be doing my own thing.

not_me_knees · 2017-06-03T23:50:04+00:00

Getting lost in my motorcycle and then finding my way back again
Throwing axes and knives in the backyard while having a beer
Grilling dinner almost every day
Just chilling out completely by myself, doing the stuff that I decided I wanted to do

kp76 · 2017-06-03T22:45:46+00:00

Im actually a bit tired pf blaming women that constantly goes on in this sub too. What happened to the idea of a sub that helps us develop positive things in our lives? Personally, id rather learn about ways hpw i can help all people, men and women love through this mess we call the west.

Id like to open up mens shelter at some point in my life.

CodeLimosis · 2017-06-03T22:19:34+00:00

Oh goodie, another one of these posts. I'm always up for a daily dose of no true scotsman fallacies and virtue signalling.

good_man_gone · 2017-06-03T21:37:39+00:00

Good afternoon brother. There are many roads which lead to freedom.

True mgtow is you being here.

Mr-Ignorantiam · 2017-06-03T21:55:02+00:00

The only things I focus on is work and studying for the CFA Level 1 exam. Everything else is trivial.. unless it's cat.

TFCNU · 2017-06-03T22:21:00+00:00

Starting my own business with a couple friends. Website is almost done. We'll be in the market in the next couple months. If the market is receptive, I'll be giving up a comfortable good paying job to pursue something of my own. Can't imagine taking on this risk with a wife and kids. MGTOW gives me the freedom to do this. If we can sell this, MGTOW will make me rich.

DireDuke · 2017-06-03T22:37:00+00:00

Those posts are there to remind us why we are mgtow.

BipolarKing14 · 2017-06-04T00:54:16+00:00

Men Going Their Way Need a reminder now and then to overcome old habits. Personally I enjoy reading a story about women that makes. Me cringe & renews my faith in the Path I've taken.

chasingsnow · 2017-06-04T02:10:23+00:00

i think its pretty faux pas to bash women in public and bring MGTOW ideas to others. same way the Vegan is so annoying when they talk and preach about it at dinner, i do NOT want to be that guy. this forum allows me to vent. every day i see things, once you put on your red pill shades, its hard not to see some shit, its disheartening and rage filling sometimes. i come here to let that go and find peace in seeing others feel that exact same way as me. i agree its too much women hating, etc, totally agree, but sharing does help.

my life though, is so not anit-women or anything, just pure MGTOW. mid 30's and never married. super happy because I finally afforded to buy my own place. nothing special but 3 bedroom apartment in a huge city. to me it feels like a palace. i don't need much space to be happy, its just me, and that's more than enough. right now i'm stressed about decorating it. I think women perpetuate the concept that men that love interior design are all gay because they want to rule the house and how it looks. truth is i love it, i can't wait to make it MY PLACE. I'm big into wall art, and i have a mix of things from antique japanese woodblocks to high-res prints of photos i've taken myself.

.....i was going to the gym 4 times a week but am off working out. i will be back but buying a new place and dealing with buying new furniture and AC and all that and super heavy work load (gotta make that $ to get my dream place)....i've been out of it. i'm really looking forward to 3-4 months from now when it'll all be done. i'm still working but i'd consider myself at least 50% retired already. my work is light and i have a salaried job but its nothing too stressful and the rest is freelance i can pick and choose from. now that i won't have rent to pay anymore and my general cost of living is super low because i eat cheap and don't have many high cost hobbies), then life is going to be super easy. i'm super excited.

Muginns · 2017-06-04T00:48:03+00:00

I like variety too, but it sounds like you're complaining and not really doing anything about it. You go to the gym. Cool. You play on the market. Cool. But why? What is your WHY? That might be interesting...

Mgtoe · 2017-06-04T01:10:18+00:00

It's like that reminding former drug addict why drugs are bad for you, daily reminders that prevent us from becoming emotionally/mentally weak and going back to the plantation.

slappydapussy · 2017-06-04T00:27:37+00:00

No true scotsman

Fuck off with your concern trolling, bro.

dirtydog113 · 2017-06-04T01:48:37+00:00

These type of things are my goals , getting lost in my motorbikes , tinkering in my shed , rebuilds etc , having my backyard and freedom to do what I want in it, going where I want and when I want without the need to worry about someone else's happiness or drama. I was there , I had the decent job , the family around me , the awesome shed with an old FC Holden restoration underway , my sons , 2 dogs , life was good and going how I had wanted it.Took me 22 years to get to this point of my life. The old , "I love you but Im not in love with you" speech , and the understanding that she had been cheating on me for quite some time was the undoing.Thinking everything was going along well was my downfall from where I wanted to be in life. 12 months on , I am still trying to get myself out of the debt I was left with , support my two sons on my own , lost my house and workshop , my Holden restoration project , and my Harley is in hiding at my parents house so it doesn't get taken or destroyed by her relatives like they threatened to do. So yeah , thanks to a woman , at 44 I am having to start again to get where I want to be in life. Do I hate them , after a while of reading , learning and experiencing , No. Do I ignore them , yes. Helping yourself and getting where you want to be in life also means knowing and understanding where you have come from.I know you cant change the past , but I sure as shit am going to learn from it .The plantation is slowly shrinking off in the distance , for some their journey may be bigger steps than others , some are still just standing on the fork in the road , deciding what is best for them.

ZCnegan · 2017-06-04T02:39:39+00:00

Yes I just said that in another post, and another mgtow bashed me saying i was being controlling to the others speech... Yes that is the true mgtow...Going your own way means you are happy on your daily life and you are not angry at women...

I focus on diet. Few male friends. Sporadically play video games. Reading. Training. Travelling. Watch porn but have long periods of nofap. Have one night stands or very short term relationships (if I see all is going well, and I split on the first red flag), where I rigorously leave them after a maximum of 3 months. This is as mgtow as I can get. I totally respect guys who are 100% monk mode and I look forward to one day be like them.

steelfil666 · 2017-06-04T06:17:18+00:00

Yeah man you are absolutely correct we are supposed to thrive against our past self who would spent his time chasing around skirts. I read a lot of people here being proud of not caring about women and just playing video games all day. This is not going your own way, this way you just use your body as dopamine vending machine its no different than hanging out on bars and doing pick up. I read a lot with my extra time. Philosophy and psychoanalysis, i work 6 times a week and on the 7th day i work on my own project of becoming an independent bee keeper. Also hitting the gym 4 times a week.

BrundleCopter · 2017-06-04T10:24:28+00:00

I've set up a home gym. Got rid of my double bed, replaced with a single bed in a smaller room, to free up the old larger bedroom for a roomscale VR holodeck. Long-term, I'm planning to pay off my mortgage early (advantages of not having to support a woman or keep her happy with pointless holidays to a different geographic coordinates), then semi-retire early.

gods_bones · 2017-06-04T10:29:25+00:00

God, shut up. Who the fuck are you to tell people what to post? Concern yourself with what you are posting and stop trying to police other people, idiot.

IAGMOW · 2017-06-04T20:49:42+00:00

I'm just about to fly to europe on a month's vacation doing whatever the fuck I want to do whenever I want to.
MGTOW gives me this freedom.

Solstus22 · 2017-06-04T03:09:53+00:00

Excuse me if I act as an apologist but, anger is a very natural reaction when 'waking up' to the reality of this world and the way people are truly. Now as far as I know, there have NEVER been any cases were MGTOWs actively went on a witch hunt which is good because they have a way to vent their anger. And I know shitposts, rants and hate speeches are unsophisticated but sometimes it helps to ease the burdens of red pill, and it also reminds us about the world because people forget sometimes.

ikhwan_arif · 2017-06-04T03:37:21+00:00

MGTOW talks about women the same way a soldier keeps talking about landmines in a minefield. You don't want to forget how just one will cripple you for life.

Shimakaze4 · 2017-06-04T06:53:07+00:00

....and a Doctor is all about making people better, that's why he's always talking about diseases.

mdcrubengonza · 2017-06-04T08:28:09+00:00

Some of us still fuck them, despite not caring much for them. Oddly enough, they keep coming back for more.

Hiromant · 2017-06-04T09:15:30+00:00

And why do atheists talk about religion. Take your concern trolling elsewhere.

funinsun10 · 2017-06-04T11:57:11+00:00

To do lists

Title	True MGTOW
Author	1rmingram1
Upvotes	37
Comments	51
Date	June 3, 2017 9:35 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/6f3nse/true_mgtow/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/true-mgtow.583631 https://theredarchive.com/post/583631

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