A Summary: (the original post is very long) Friend and co-worker that got married recently discovered that his wife lied to him and caught her red handed (in front of myself, and his parents and even a pair of cops!) coming home drunk (some guy dropped her off, not a taxi/uber/lyft).

The original post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8s8twp/last_night_was_straight_out_of_hell/

Update: I know from experience that sometimes right after a man catches his wife or gf cheat on him, they swear they are done with the relationship. I think that most men stick around.

Although he told me that night that he's done with her, I felt that because he is such a romantic type, he will forgive and forget and remain in the doggy style position like all married men and await for the next round of ass fu**ing.

I am happy to report that I was wrong. He has moved out and already hired a divorce lawyer AND FILED FOR DIVORCE, I SAW THE DOCUMENTS!

Turns out, in NY state, even if you were married for 5 seconds, getting it annulled is almost impossible. He needs to go through the divorce route just like if he was married 30 years!

Both his and her parents suggested they go seek counseling! They gave him the "marriage is work" lecture, but he refused to listen. Hard to imagine your own parents tell you to continue in such a terrible relationship.

The sad part here is that he still thinks he will find a good woman to start a family with, and right now, he is very down, and it would be wrong for me to start pushing the red pills down his throat. In due time, I will. I really don't want to see him or any guy lose all dignity because of a smelly hole that demands you stuff it with cash when chads co*k is not filling it up.

His divorce lawyer ordered him to cease all conversations with her, and because there are no kids that was easy to do, not to mention, he has self respect.

According to him it should be all finalized shortly.

She has reached out directly to some of his friends by phone and online (she does not have my number and I don't have social media) asking them to "talk sense into the guy".

Her excuse for doing what she did (she claims she did nothing and the guy that dropped her off was a friend of a friend of a friend) is because she got depressed when he said he wanted to hold off having kids for another year or so. Yes, it is his fault that she went whoring around. He told me, if every time I say something that upsets her, I have to be nervous she will go cheat on me, I cannot continue in this relationship.

To show you how blue pilled he is, he tells me that his soon to be ex-wife sent her best friend to send him a text to tell him that is he needs someone to talk to she is there for him! He did not reply.

I doubt she was sent by anyone other than her hormones. I did not tell him that, but that's what i'm thinking.

I am happy for him because I know if he did what most men do and tolerate cheating, he would get destroyed.