Okay my previous post was way too long so I'll summarize this all.

My ex and I split a month ago after being together 1.5 years. Knew her for 2.5. Things started perfectly and we were both crazy about eachother. The honeymoon phase eventually ended, at least for me and she still basically demanded the same attention, lust and passion as the beginning of the relationship. I was a really supportive, caring and understanding bf who gave it his all and received very little in return. Although things were pretty 50/50 for the first few months. She had no input, ideas or goals of her own and lacked direction with her life. She was pretty dependent on me to organise dates, supply her with constant affection, attention and never compromised. Very, very one sided relationship in the end. Lots of take and no give on her part. Lots of disagreements over absolutely fuck all, most of which was drama she created. Never thought logically. Was super immature. No interest in my life or job ect. Very selfish mindset with no plan for us together. I still loved her at this point. I really didn't do anything to deserve that kind of treatment.
Don't get me wrong, we had and shared great memories but the bad outweighed the good.

I was super blind and was too nice and didn't set enough boundaries from the start. I did absolutely all I could but had enough in the end. She ended things as she was "unhappy". And lots of bullshit reasons as to why she felt the need to breakup. Wanted to stay friends, and apparently didn't want to "lose me". She got into a new relationship 2 weeks later. Absolutely no remorse. No guilt. Looking happy and in love with new bf as of right now.

Do all women do this? Does she have psychological issues? What the fuck?

Here's a few more points:

  • Wasn't shy at all, was good at appearing likeable to everyone around her.

  • Had big falling out with 4 girlfriends shortly after meeting her.

  • Very flirtatious,confident and fake.

  • Had almost no girlfriends and had lots of guy friends, but mostly acquaintances.

  • Was told she hooked up with random guys in clubs and kept a tally like a game

  • Had no idea where her life was going. Always held multiple random jobs quitting and finding new ones constantly. Having issues with bosses and co-workers as they were lazy and she was "better".

  • Couldn't be alone and needed constant attention, affection and company.

  • Didn't have any of her own ideas, goals or future in mind.

  • Was extremely selfish and never thought of us as a team

  • Got extremely competitive with me over EVERYTHING. And if I was better than her in any way she couldn't handle it and built up a lot of resentment towards me.

  • Was jealous I had a better job, had travelled the world and had goals in mind.

  • Never took advice from me in order to help her out and never let me show or teach her things.

  • Not capable of admitting wrongdoings or self reflection.

  • Had lots of trouble talking about serious issues or opening up about feelings ect.

  • Had an enormous ego and bragged about herself all the time.

THE LIST GOES ON AND ON!!!!!

Thoughts????