Well,duh.

JerryNewton7 · 2019-11-23T05:11:41+00:00

Gee.. Instead of trusting his instincts, this guy is paying attention to blue pilled comments on his post. Probably considering keeping the relationship. Not only she is a gold digger, but a nasty manipulator as well.

EdwardSandchest · 2019-11-23T06:00:41+00:00

before you judge him, a key statement was

> Ive never really been in an actual serious relationship
Cant expect someone with 0 experience to just know. Shes got 10+ years experience running the tables on guys; theres a power imbalance.

DavisR001 · 2019-11-23T06:12:15+00:00

ALL women are gold digger.

To the original op n anyone in the same situation

Why would you commit to a woman that was never there for you. While ur struggling in med school, spending lonely night studying w/ no love or support, these hoes are out there fucking Chad n Tyrone left n right every night.

You are every thot Alpha fuck/ Beta buck wet dream. An inexperienced bluepill weathy beta, a ticket to the easy life n early retirement, a sucker that they can divorce rape later. DON'T BE THAT GUY.

Making six figures, the best years of ur life are ahead of u. Go live the life u never did, these hoes r only good for pump n dump.

Aposematicly · 2019-11-23T04:55:01+00:00

She was deffo a gold digger.

Nestroit · 2019-11-23T05:59:57+00:00

fucking idiot, never talk about money with women, I'm not even telling my female colleague(who is broke btw) how my balance looks like.

SlrWrdn17 · 2019-11-23T06:14:54+00:00

Asshole? Nah. Plus, it's not about the money you'll provide her, so much so as the STATUS you'll provide for her. She'll always have that one up on her girl friends to be able to say she landed a doctahhh (say it with your arms in the arm as if god was shining light on you.) Dont forget all the pics you'll have provided for her facebook/instagram of the nice restaurants and vacations to further validate herself

Savixe · 2019-11-23T08:49:50+00:00

Why people have such a hard time listening to their gut feelings?

This suspiciousness is the result of generations upon generations of selection for the people that best judged risks, oportunities and overall dangers. Your instinct is ringing for a gold digger just like your ancestor's instincts rang when they decided guarding the food of last week's hunt that almost killed them was a good idea.

You are the result of the survival of millenia in ruthless environments, start acting like it.

waxqube · 2019-11-23T06:16:34+00:00

If you have to ask...

Krazyrobus · 2019-11-23T08:15:20+00:00

Lol, this guy needs a serious dose of redpill knowledge

bigdaadyy · 2019-11-23T09:15:39+00:00

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coldfusion718 · 2019-11-23T07:19:28+00:00

I told him to take his vacation and tell her he got laid off and then he will see for himself that she's a gold digger.

bmoney9467 · 2019-11-23T04:58:04+00:00

Obviously she's a gold digger, but on a side note... I wonder how rich people differentiate between those after your wealth and genuine friends. I'd probably be so paranoid and not trust very many people, which is a good problem to have I suppose.

CoinSwapTrader · 2019-11-23T06:30:51+00:00

But now you see how a vagina can warp your thoughts and mind to constantly worry about "the relationship" and her needs? Women add chaos and distraction to life, if you want more problems and less time! One must set boundaries early on to avoid the trap of habit!

realChebz · 2019-11-23T08:56:13+00:00

Welp... looks like he didn't learn anything useful from the comments, except how to be a better simp. But then again maybe external affirmation is all he was looking. Best of luck to him!

MrMagtow · 2019-11-23T11:28:11+00:00

When the guy who asks "Wait a moment - this is wrong - does anyone agree with me?"....
He gets pulled back into the barrel by the other crabs.

bigdaadyy · 2019-11-23T14:27:12+00:00

Behind every successful Man, appears a Whymin!

dimwah · 2019-11-23T14:33:58+00:00

Your forgetting.... She's not yours, it's just your turn. That's why you're paying for everything. She will move on to a surgeon... Or the next occupation status fad that will tickle her tiny brain. If you weren't a doctor boyfriend?... And just a customer service representative (no offence to anybody)... Where would you be in the ladder? She wants an easy life. Some advice... Don't tell them your a doctor. Tell them your a nurse. Then you judge them....

aidsgoblin · 2019-11-23T15:48:17+00:00

I wouldn't even call her a gold digger. I don't even like the term "gold digger" because it implies that there are women that are not like this aka unicorns. This behavior is par for course for women, especially at her age. She's simply fulfilling her female imperative by quickly ensnaring a wealthy provider and hurrying him through the courting process before he can even think about whether or not he even wants to commit. And to top it off, this poor guy doesn't even realize his peak SMV right now as 29 year old doctor making good money because he's been out of the game so long. She has a lottery ticket and she wants to cash it fast before any other women realize he's out there and try to snatch him up. To paraphrase Bill Burr, nothing is going to prepare you for that platoon of whores over the horizon waiting to jump on your dick when you become successful.

Ezco414 · 2019-11-23T12:03:12+00:00

The signs are there and it seems like he's aware of every red flag. If he doesn't run for the hills he's going to feel the devastation later. She's not worth the trouble.

BlackFire68 · 2019-11-23T13:09:38+00:00

You are not the asshole, you are in grave danger however of being the sucker

bigdaadyy · 2019-11-23T13:10:00+00:00

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Mr_M0t0m0 · 2019-11-23T16:41:55+00:00

She's sees him as a provider (meal ticket).

She doesn't love him (or have the potential to do so).

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-11-23T20:11:45+00:00

Glad he figured it out sooner than later. The only reason she's dating him is because of the

fact that he's a doctor. That's all! It isn't him that she cares about. It's having to gloat and tell people that "look my bf is a doctor. A DOCTOR honey. Isn't he a great catch? I'm not a failure as a woman, see? I got a doctor as a bf and soon as a husband."

Mateusz77 · 2019-11-23T21:20:52+00:00

Wow, this is my greatest fear. I'm in the same boat as him. Still in my undergrad. Will be going to med school. Haven't had a serious relationship either. The grind this career requires is insane, it's really difficult to maintain a social life let alone a woman while trying to get through this. But this has been a worry of mine for a while. That once I have time and get out there, I'll find me a gold digger like this guy and not someone genuine. On the bright side I've been on trp since I was 16 and have had a mgtow attitude for years now. It is imperative that I keep this in my future. It's fucking hard though. Not having a woman or relationship ever really fucks you up. I want some emotional connection and shit and to experience love. I know that sounds beta as fuck, but there's some good times on relationships with women. I've never had one of those. Like they say you can't have honey without flies and I kinda want me some honey.

Title	Well,duh.
Author	bigdaadyy
Upvotes	176
Comments	63
Date	November 23, 2019 4:44 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/e0d61w/wellduh/
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