I have been following MGTOW for awhile and used its principles while seeing someone. We broke up a month ago. I spent 9 months with this person who won’t even talk with me now & make sure we’re both ok. Sure I was an asshole but apologized for my part. & yet she’s probably bent over right now & not even thinking about me. Can an ex be that cruel ? What do I do if she reaches back out? I gave her slack due to me causing the breakup but knowing mgtow principles, I’m at a loss for words. I’m focusing on myself & hitting the gym. Making peace with being by myself again & did see someone else to get past oneitis but when I care about someone, realize there weren’t a unicorn but for the short term, they were really good, it’s a blow to lose it. I literally got sex whenever I wanted, I always had her make me food after my gym session, watched whatever I wanted with her, & she was submissive. Traditional & not on her phone. I was the one with the bad tendencies as a millennial. Anyway, she was literally submissive and took care of me until she started drinking too much & I became distant and checked out mentally/emotionally. I’ve done everything right the last two weeks & yet I have oneitis and simping. How do y’all cross the abyss to full freedom from wanting a woman’s attention ?