What the hell they really want?

dacracot · 2015-05-29T13:12:38+00:00

Simple... She hooked up with the other dude, and thought it wrong to keep the relationship escalation going with you, and stopped. After 5 months, she broke up with him. Now you are back to the top of the list. In her mind, he is water under the bridge. With you, she wants to resume where she left off.

Think of the choices here... If I'm right, do you want her to explain herself?

codemoney · 2015-05-29T13:20:52+00:00

And, no matter what you do or fail to do, she will do this again. Because she can.

scarredlife · 2015-05-29T13:31:48+00:00

not totally brain dead & annoying as the rest of the flock.

I can't emphasize enough how wrong you are. She's primarily driven by her emotions and either wanted to have a nookie with you (while being in a relationship?) or to have a replacement fast if her relationship ends.

Don't expect her to feel guilty about her behavior. And if women do, their brains will reassemble the happened scenario in a way that fits them. Always keep in mind that women are actresses who manipulate the male mind naturally. You can see it as their right to exist. Don't trust women, seriously. They can and will fuck you over as soon they benefit from doing so. It's socially acceptable (and encouraged!) for them to do it.

sweatynut · 2015-05-29T17:32:32+00:00

She was never yours, it was just your turn. That's why you have to use them and then lose them.

JackRayner_ · 2015-05-29T13:49:17+00:00

This seems like a question better suited for Ask The Red Pill

I'm sure a few MGTOW, like myself, are more than competent to answer questions relating to dating, but this really isn't the place.

_kTc_ · 2015-05-29T14:16:09+00:00

She is branch swinging

DigitalScetis · 2015-05-29T17:57:30+00:00

From a MGTOW perspective, it seems that she has been conditioned by her environment to assume that you would have sex with her when she did the "always trying to touch me" things. When you didn't, and you showed you had standards, she took it as a sign that you were:

1) Gay 2) Insulting her 3) One of those "religious kinds" who were so vested in relational perfection, burdening her with an expectation she didn't know if she could meet.

You see, men in the 21st century aren't expected to have standards. Women were conditioned for the past 30 years to assume that men are unconditional horn dogs that will jump on anything. Men who /do/ have standards are assumed to always do it as a way of projecting or objectifying the woman in a nefarious way. We can thank armchair feminist psychoanalysis for those two assumptions.

The proof, for me, that she's internalized these assumptions comes with her attempt to contact you after blocking you, etc., without any explanation as to why. See, in her mind, it never occurred to her that she did anything wrong, because she (like many women) don't think it is possible for a man to care about such a thing...as long as there is potential pussy there, her assumption is that the man would just be happy to have another go at trying to obtain it.

_NerdStark · 2015-05-29T20:28:03+00:00

Q:

What the hell is in the female head?

A: Unadulterated, solipsistic self-interest.

Once a woman has received a few thousand repeats of the message that she is the prize, all that really concerns her is what she wants because, 'obviously', she is doing men a favour by bestowing her attention upon them... the inconsistencies in her behaviour you mentioned, were you to actually raise them with her directly and logically, could well result in her becoming very angry. (I've experienced this a few times myself) If she happens to have become radicalized (femtardized) already, I have no doubt there is some form of 'abuse' of which she could accuse you for daring to analyse her behaviour.

I'm gonna say again what someone's sergeant said to him in the army:

"There are two types of women: those on medication and those who should be on medication. Stay away from both."

turbinfullofc4 · 2015-05-30T06:10:09+00:00

That's standard female behavior, i.e., shitty, irresponsible, fickle and selfish.

Women are mostly terrible. The vast majority of them have no sense of honor in relationships so why bother?

Get a dog and fuck Asian hookers. Much safer, cheaper, more stress-free and varied in the long run. Little chance of getting emotionally fucked over, which is all but guaranteed in a relationship with today's women.

If you want a real answer I would suggest posting to /r/asktrp. There are some very smart and helpful men there.

AugmentedFury · 2015-05-29T18:39:27+00:00

Sounds like the typical woman to me. Nothing to see here.

Xuixien_TheEpic · 2015-05-29T14:30:00+00:00

She's a whore, who cares?

HEIL_FUCKING_HITLER · 2015-05-29T13:00:34+00:00

But did you fuck her at all?

thrownaway_MGTOW · 2015-05-29T22:57:49+00:00

Tomorrow she sent me a text and I answered.

That's pretty damned amazing right there.

I suppose technically speaking, it IS possible (telecom back across the international date line and all).

pirate6728 · 2015-05-29T23:04:33+00:00

RE: The headline: If you ever find out, could you please tell me? After 60 years on this planet, I have a couple of ideas--- based on the assumption that women are spoiled children in adult suits-- but no idea what they want. I suspect they don't really know.

Alpaca_Rancher · 2015-05-30T22:32:34+00:00

Women have inflated SMV. She thinks that because she possesses the vagina that you're automatically lower than her. In her mind you're going after her, and because of such gives her the ability to do what she pleases and "try out all options". She tried another option, found it didn't work and went back to the first option (you). In her mind with you pursuing her, that you'd automatically come running back and forgive her.

Honestly, fuck her. She's a total cunt like every girl out there her age.

Lonny_zone · 2015-05-31T21:22:46+00:00

You didn't make a physical move. She bailed. Red Pill 101 is what you need.

Yakatonker · 2015-06-01T01:21:25+00:00

r/TRP sold you a bag of shit. The alpha/beta dichotomy which is the egotistical wet dream of the people there is a failed understanding of the female psyche.

Women love situationally, and economically with a short attention span towards long term objectives if the utility of the moment becomes compromised or is situationally erased through distance. Effectively women do not love men, but their utility and if your's becomes displaced or supplanted by something else in her immediate proximity it simply means she'll latch onto others irregardless of "SMV".

"SMV" is also a joke, really what it is, is the pure pandering to Gynocentric desires, wealth first amongst all things, social proof, then beauty. Women are cold blooded in the endeavor of "love", their evolution as the mammalian side with the reproductive aspect has made them ruthless in the aspect of finding a mate that would toss away their lives for the economic security of her person and her offspring which she also loves based on the promise/conditional return of economy. We can see this savage, short sighted scenario play out in the black community where women utilize the state as a substitute provider and where most of them fail to raise the next generation of children with proper male roll models, the other edge of the problem is the predominant male models dole out huge doses of Gynocentric idealism/worship. MGTOWs like Sotomayor chip away at this problem.

redditnosleep · 2015-06-02T15:49:15+00:00

Haha bro im on the same boat right now. was dating, suddenly silence. saw her with other guy on fb

TAUK2014 · 2015-05-29T19:07:53+00:00

Literary, she was all over me all the time, always trying to touch me.But, after 15-20 days she blocked my number... After that I saw her in the city holding hands with another bloke... she sent me a message yesterday like everything is okay

Basically, you weren't worshiping at the pussy altar.

She found a disciple/dupe, blocked you because he can't know she ain't worth his time and offerings. Things (probably he) didn't work/pay/sprog out.

Now she has an opening for a new disciple; you're a candidate.

Title	What the hell they really want?
Author	grut4
Upvotes	11
Comments	58
Date	May 29, 2015 12:54 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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