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[–]betterredthenwed17 points18 points19 points (2 children) | Copy Link
U.S. states have wised up in divorces, whether there's a child involved or not. My divorce rape was, according to the two attorneys I consulted with, a direct result of the state not wanting a dependent. Never mind the fact my ex-wife has a master's degree.
Beware, gentlemen (and lesbians): U.S. states will often determine alimony/maintenance by 1) what's available and 2) reduces the chances someone will be on the state's welfare system (ex-spouse or child).
In my case I was paying child support while being responsible for 100% of our child's expenses (who lived with me before/after the divorce). Imagine that: I took pride in providing for my child - it was an opportunity to be authentic and responsible. But to have to pay child support on top of that? And yet that was the law.
More and more states are determining the disposition of assets, not the divorcing couple. I don't fear women and don't dislike them. But I'm scared as fuck of divorce.
[–]elementalwalruss10 points11 points12 points (1 child) | Copy Link
You were paying child support for the other child.
[–]betterredthenwed5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL
[–]menshouldhaverights7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh man this is just priceless.
[–]DWShimoda2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
The schadenboner!
[–]thecherry944 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
https://i.imgur.com/T34zXKt.png
Ouch.
https://i.imgur.com/CtKJlJA.png
Haha. Those censored comments are really entertaining. Replace the "r" in the reddit url with "c" to see for yourself. reddit.com/r/... --> ceddit.com/r/...
[–]AppropriateNerd0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
The truth hurts.
[–]LILHOMIE12503 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao I was just about to cross post this. So it's fine when other men are on the hook for your child but not you. Gyow brothers
[–]8017351 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Mhm. Or the actual father if financially better of?
[–]Playstation_53 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
In the UK its a crime to put someone who isn't the father on a birth certificate. Makes a lot more sense and it has seen a few thots in trouble for trying to con guys out of maintenance
[–]8017352 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Good to know there is some sanity left.
[–]betterredthenwed0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
U.S. states have wised up in divorces, whether there's a child involved or not. My divorce rape was, according to the two attorneys I consulted with, a direct result of the state not wanting a dependent. Never mind the fact my ex-wife has a master's degree.
Beware, gentlemen (and lesbians): U.S. states will often determine alimony/maintenance by 1) what's available and 2) reduces the chances someone will be on the state's welfare system (ex-spouse or child).
In my case I was paying child support while being responsible for 100% of our child's expenses (who lived with me before/after the divorce). Imagine that: I took pride in providing for my child - it was an opportunity to be authentic and responsible. But to have to pay child support on top of that? And yet that was the law.
More and more states are determining the disposition of assets, not the divorcing couple. I don't fear women and don't dislike them. But I'm scared as fuck of divorce.
[–]usa_foot_print0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
lol what?
You had to pay child support yet the kid was always with you?
[–]betterredthenwed0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah. Imagine that.
There was no white male privilege or patriarchy that day.
But ... it's over. Plantation is far behind me and my last check was more than a year ago :-)
[–]thetempleofapollo0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Marrying women sucks, even if you’re a woman.
[–]shinsooabyss-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
I should have advised follow mgtow on "her" but this lesbian has XX chromosome.