Why are there so many perfect couples?

801735 · 2018-10-28T23:58:08+00:00

Trust me,

You only see what they show you. You never truly know a woman, until you meet her in a divorce court.

betterredthenwed · 2018-10-29T00:04:57+00:00

What makes you believe they are happy and perfect? You only see two things:

What you want to see
What people display

SanPedroLover_ · 2018-10-29T00:00:46+00:00

It's all smoke & mirrors.

People always try to make their relationship seem stronger & better than it actually is.

801735 · 2018-10-29T00:00:11+00:00

They never cheat on each other and the man never has to discover the red pill.

Pfffff AHAHHAhahahAHAHhAhahahhahAhaHAHhAhahAHAHhAAH

Just like cake - it's a lie.

Im_Talking · 2018-10-29T01:14:48+00:00

Not sure what planet you're from. Most marriages are hanging on by a thread.

user_miki · 2018-10-29T00:08:53+00:00

Why I have the feeling that somebody is trolling here?

DangZagnut · 2018-10-29T00:18:44+00:00

Those people are only 10 years in. There’s a big difference between 18 and 30. Women and men both freak out.

anongogogo · 2018-10-29T02:01:02+00:00

You only see whats on the surface.

cafeorange · 2018-10-29T02:16:25+00:00

Because its STILL their turn

Sir_manalot · 2018-10-29T00:14:14+00:00

You are missing the big picture here

https://youtu.be/7vqRbScCIPU (watch this video all the way through to understand).

Sure, I bet there are a few marriages that end up living there happily ever after...but they are rare exceptions, most couples just project how perfect there relationship is for status purposes.

deusex2027 · 2018-10-29T00:10:42+00:00

They are trying their best to hide the imperfection. They are lying to themselves that they are happy and satisfied. They think this is what perfect looks like and that this is what will make them happy. They will never be the best they could be or achieve their best because the 'perfect' relationship is holding them back. They are living a lie and they don't even know it. Few do ... and they are depressed.

thottttttttttttt · 2018-10-29T04:08:28+00:00

I knew a perfect couple. From the inside he was whipped af and she wore the pants.

betterredthenwed · 2018-10-29T00:04:43+00:00

What makes you believe they are happy and perfect? You only see two things:

What you want to see
What people display

tramese · 2018-10-29T01:36:33+00:00

everyone has skeletons in their closet. what you see in front of you is only for show.

lonewolfsigma8917 · 2018-10-29T05:49:45+00:00

As per AOL 50% of married women cheat on their husbands anyways,75% of women file a no fault divorce and in 80-90% of cases women get the child custody, apart from alimony and child support try to counter that homie

2018-10-29T00:11:37+00:00

Blue pillers think ANY relationship = perfect relationship. Hyping up the relationship to others is to cloak and deny the bad that stems from relationship and burden it may have caused him. Also it's used as a self esteem booster. Look at how many blue pills shun MGTOW- it's a way for them to feel "validated", "special". When they say "oh you're just jealous". Female validation is their self esteem boost.

To a blue-pill: female validation = overrides anything and everything.

rebelde_sin_causa · 2018-10-29T01:01:42+00:00

Nobody is asking you to believe anything without putting it to the test. It's not my/our job to convince you of anything. Live your life, come to your own conclusions.

Female_urinary_maze · 2018-10-29T04:29:15+00:00

You're right, it doesn't add up. There's a reason why not every man grows jaded and miserable from his experiences with women. They don't need the red pill because while they're not actually perfect the relationships generally don't suck. I wouldn't normally comment in this sub but you seem like you can make it out and go have fulfilling relationships, or just be more comfortable in a world that's about 50% female.

scarhand23 · 2018-10-29T08:52:32+00:00

Relationships like having a baby. It's cute until you have to take care of everything at home. You gotti change the diapers, you have to wake up I don't know how many times at night to feed it.

Too many responsibilities.

3rd_viewpoint · 2018-10-29T10:15:52+00:00

Courts are open to the public. Somebody recommended to go to divorce court proceedings once and just sit in the gallery to observe. Haven't done that. You might want to do that.

shadowrealms · 2018-10-29T10:27:09+00:00

Perfect? Haha, dont be fooled its just a facade.

Think of your parents for instance. Did they know act different when around other people, going to parties, events and so on?

Then get home and suddenly they fight because something displeased the woman and she makes a big deal out of it.

Just an example. Then again its not like anyone forces you to be alone. If you want a relationship go for it, maybe youre lucky.

jonathino001 · 2018-10-29T10:44:20+00:00

The thing is far to many people on here say "AWALT", and the problem with that is it's indefensible. All it takes is ONE example to the contrary to disprove an absolute statement.

However just because AWALT isn't true, doesn't mean the red pill is wrong as a whole. All you have to do is look at the divorce rates. Or just look at the lives of people who are married around you. I've been told a number of times "don't get married kid" by a bunch of married dudes. My single friends are way happier, way less stressed, and have more time for everything.

Yes, the bias towards women in court is disgusting, and is a serious issue. Yes false accusations are way more common than the SJW's would have you believe. But for the most part these problems aren't quite as rampant as many on this sub would have you believe. But that still doesn't mean you should do it. It's STILL a Russian roulette, and even if you don't get screwed by the courts, even if you don't end up miserable, all marriages still deteriorate to sexless cohabitation eventually. Look up the psychology of "novelty" as it pertains to sex. It's just human nature.

You will be happier going your own way. You have the freedom to do what you want, without having to come to an agreement with someone else. You have time to pursue your passion, and to hang out with your friends. You avoid the risks for men associated with the modern dating scene. The only reasons I've heard to not GYOW is that you've been taught that is just the default way to live, And you'll be lonely (which isn't true, because there are so many other ways to be social that don't require you to cohabitate.)

TLDR: you don't even have to believe AWALT for MGTOW to be the best decision.

ILOVENOGGERS · 2018-10-30T10:23:06+00:00

I know a relationship where they are both happy and I don't think they hide anything from the public. They are both hardcore gamers at home most of their time playing games or watching anime except for when they work or walk with their dog.

Title	Why are there so many perfect couples?
Author	External_Success
Upvotes	18
Comments	27
Date	October 28, 2018 11:57 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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