I've commented here several times about how I try to increase my invisibility and avoid attention. I'm tall, fit, thin, blonde/grey, so it's not easy, being older helps though.
During warm weather, I dress down, out-of-style haircut, cargo shorts (hated by most women I've learned), over-sized tees, old shoes. Low end smart phone, no watch, new but utilitarian car, no indications of wealth. I ride a rusting, dirty bicycle usually. I spend much of my time at the beach, so beach / swimwear is also a common outfit.
On several occasions in the past, I've engaged in conversations with women, who are surprised I live here and own a house here. I've since learned this is not a good idea. lol
Getting life in order after divorce, planning for my future, living life in the present, getting toys, travel, and doing what I want when I want (except working), I realized that I'm on a winning path.
The best way to win is to not advertise it. Appear to be losing, a loser. Let women (and simps, cucks, manginas, etc.) think you are a loser, be undesirable, uninteresting, invisible.
If unnecessary, unwanted, unintentional interactions occur, with the above in place it's very easy to disengage and shut it down quickly.
It's working well for me. No one knows who I am, what I am, what I have, what I could offer and provide. I'm winning while (apparently) losing. Be invisible, win and enjoy.
edit: as feminists shame, blame, insult, etc. mgtow, let them believe it. the more they do this, the more they confirm we're winning.
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A successful ghosting. Good tips.
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This sounds like me. I still clean up pretty well and I have some very nice clothes, but most of the time I go around town in the same kind of slacks and t-shirt. I caught them on sale and I have about 10 of each, all in the same colors. I wear them most of the time when I'm off work and I do something similar with my work clothes.
My car will be an antique in a few more years, but it's clean and well maintained.
Meanwhile I crunched the numbers this past weekend and realized I could just not show up at work tomorrow and I'd be able to get by for the better part of a decade without earning a dime. That's just off my retirement, even after taxes and penalties. Doing so would be foolish in the extreme but it's comforting to know I could if I had to.
Of course I'm not going to do that. With the house paid off I'm stuffing as much money away as I can and I'm on track to retire early.
Nobody I work with has any clue.
My sister found out about the house and almost immediately one of her post wall friends started turning up and trying to flirt. She wouldn't have poured a bucket of piss on me if I were on fire until she found that out. The last time I saw her she showed up at my mothers home with my sister. She made a "there's my future husband" type comment and I really shouldn't have let it bother me, but I'd had enough. I told her that if I woke up in bed with her and had a wedding ring on my finger I'd grab my gun and blow my fucking brains out on the spot.
She tried to scold me for joking about suicide and I told her "I wasn't joking".
She hasn't been back.
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