Wish I had a partner.

GimmeYourJuices · 2019-11-11T05:40:08+00:00

Humans are social creatures. Make some friends or get a fluffy companion!

throwaway91846519104 · 2019-11-11T05:46:11+00:00

The benefits are not worth the risks.

Get a dog for your companionship needs, and hit up an escort or get a pocket pussy for if/when your sexual urges become out of control. Or ideally, learn to overcome them and go monk

Diogeneplz1 · 2019-11-11T05:54:58+00:00

I'm thankful for my last relationship because it red pilled me, but it also destroyed me emotionally. After 4 years, I've just started to reconnect with myself and remember who I was. A lot of that was on me for continually doubling down hand after hand after hand, but I really just loved her unconditionally. I've wasted my early 20's in despondency and everyday has been hell and I get why people kill themselves as I easily would have, if I didn't have a great family to lean on. Luckily, I've done just enough to keep my future somewhat bright and tangible, but I still have no will to pursue it. Another year and I'll be done and will have to work my way up from the bottom.

Women just need to be for fun. You can't make them your life's mission or even a part of the mission. They just need to be a side thing like booze that you can take or leave. It sucks man, especially for those of us who just grinded out through high school thinking the women would mature in their choosing or would otherwise come to appreciate us and now we lack real world and social skills and no longer have the motivation to do the beta bux shit, which is the only tangible thing were good at for making it in the world. That's where the red pill nihilism comes from for most guys here. What else is there to do now when the only thing we knew was turning us into a slave to women and top flight men?

eduardkoopman · 2019-11-11T08:17:06+00:00

I still desire one. I may just be bored. But idk how to let it go

100% natural and biological. To want: have sex, have children, and have a relationship with an attractive and pleasnt/liveable woman.

Not that prementioned is possible, without plenty risks and a high fail rate. But, normal to feel to want that.

Then the internal battle begins: What weight more?
* the possible joy of getting that; or the
* risks/pains that may come with looking for women to have sex, relationship or kids with. And the afterwards risks

It's highly personal. And fluid for most men I see.
For myself.
When I was young. I was willing to take alot of risks and pains for the (possibilty) of sex (relationships I didn't care about, and kids I didn't want).
When in my late 20's. I wanting to experience an LTR, and was willing willing to take the risks and pains for experiencing a LTR. I eneded up Betabuxxing for a couple of years, and started hating it along the way alot.
When in my early 30's. I wanted to be alone again, and sex didn't bother me anymore. I decided monk mode for 4 years now.
Now, at mid+ 30's. I notice I start to find you kids so funny and cute. And I notice the feeling creeps up in me off wanting to have my own child. I know this one, is hugh and plenty risks (at leastt where I live). And I'm therefore very hesitant to jump on this one. I will wait it out for some time/years for sure to see if it stays or is a temporairy thing. If I decide to really want this, I need to make a plan (if even possible) to have child without running the risk of ruining my financial life for the next part of my life.

tedshreddon · 2019-11-11T05:54:02+00:00

Start some hobbies, set new goals, make male friends and keep taking your red pills!!! If the thirst gets frustrating, pocket pussy is easiest.

take it one day at a time brother.

ReverendCatch · 2019-11-11T06:23:34+00:00

Yes this is normal, it's how we're designed to be. Problem is bitches be cray cray and we can't have it without getting drug through the mud. Everything is stacked against men: culture, the court system, law enforcement, etc. The vamps will feed on you and leave you dry.

It's a real shame. Women could have everything they ever wanted if they'd stop having gangbangs with tyrone and swinging from branch to branch like mindless apes in search of resources.

hugaddiction · 2019-11-11T05:59:22+00:00

It’s logical to desire women and to want a family, we are programmed that way. But, you need to acknowledge their nature and should have your expectations in line with reality, or else you’r in for some devastating surprises. Best of luck friend

RocknR0IIa · 2019-11-11T16:32:56+00:00

How old are you? (Seriously)

Title	Wish I had a partner.
Author	Dharmathinker
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	November 11, 2019 5:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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