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[–]guitarguy174927 points28 points29 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
dodged many bullets. thank god I'm wiser now. I was pretty fucking careless and oblivious. but very thankful to be in the place I am now in life mentally and spiritually.
[–]stupidonparade5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm so fortunate I didn't land into fatherhood. Too many risks taken. Can't decide if I'm really lucky or have a guardian angel.
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depends on how much you lost. i've survived with money in tact, never got married and never got pregnant trapped, so yeah, i feel pretty fucking awesome.
a lot of men here have lost way more than i do and have to live with the ghosts of regret and a devastating past.
STILL, even those guys can be reborn, from the ash rising again. it's never too late.
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some of us fail because of the seemingly impossible standards they hold us to. It's crippling at times.
[–]BallsNemze14 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for this post
[–]Booshank2513 points14 points15 points 7 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
This is the sort of post single mothers on Facebook share. Inane.
[–]Ghustgan7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Was about to say the exact same thing. You go girls!
[–]Booshank253 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cue Destiny's Child - I'm a Survivor.
[–]bhavv11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I'm getting my first house all for myself soon!
At age 34, with disabilities and recently the past 1-2 months all my joints and bones are melting and severely painful (diagnosed with Joint Hypermobility).
I couldn't even sit in a chair today without pain throughout my neck, shoulders and spine, and am still waiting for scans and occupational therapy.
Free house on disability benefits. Took me ages to get because single men are at the bottom of the welfare and social housing lists.
[–]xwingdeliciousness2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
nice, I had no idea people with disabilities get free houses. Is it rural? What do you do for a living?
[–]bhavv3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Its not a completely free house, its free in the sense that I'll be paying for it with disability benefits.
For a living I lay in bed all day every day and rot away.
[–]NiceIce4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Damn. I took away my downvote for getting a free house, then replaced it with an upvote when I learned what came with it.
Peace...
[–]bhavv2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Both my knees and wrists are wrecked, and recently my neck and spine are incredibly painful and still waiting for scans and occupational therapy to try and improve them.
I wanted to apply for a bit of part time office or similar work, but now even sitting in a chair is too painful on my neck and spine, and I'm popping max strength co codamols with duloxetine every day.
[–]NiceIce1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That sounds brutal. May I ask the cause of these injuries?
[–]bhavv1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
They're not injuries, its a joint disease - ehlers danlos syndrome.
My spine is out of place and my neck can barely move now.
[–]NiceIce1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok, I now understand.
https://www.ehlers-danlos.com/what-is-eds
Do you know what type you are?
[–]room_3030 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sounds like you'd get some kick ass painkillers though.
[–]bhavv0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
60mg Duloxetine and 2 max doses of co codamol currently work, but only after 2-3 hours of taking the later when it turns into morphine.
I try to make do with only one dose of co codamol though, so theres still some pain. Duloxetine in the morning and co codamol at night seems to the be most effective so I dont end up hooked on morphine.
After a while I should be able to double the duloxetine dose to 120mg if needed, but Ive only been on it for a few weeks now and it can take a while to work fully, so I'll give it 3 months first before asking for more if I still need to then.
All last night my ribs were hurting though, and currently my collarbone with just a single dose of each of the two.
[–]NewYorkGuy415 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is great
[–]ConsumingImpulse6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
For men this is great. But women will incessantly sit there and post shit like this all over FB and pat themselves on the back.
[–]Fearless_Ser4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/960atk/mgtow_mentality/
Did my post inspire you to post this?
[–]pavTheory[S] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow no I hadn't seen that one before I posted, just saw it and upvoted! It's good to have some positive encouraging posts sometimes 😊
[–]tylerden2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you are reading this you have reached the end of billions of years of evolution behind you. Any one of your ansesters could have fuckes up, but here you are. You are lifes biggest lottery winner...ever.
[–]DJDickJob0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude that is the perfect way to look at life. I salute you and your functional brain.
[–]josh_my_gosh3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck yeah! Took a bullet in the heart from my teenage sweetheart/wife of 13 years/only woman I've ever loved. Still recovering, still digging myself out of debt, still working my way out of depression.
But a bright and exciting future has replaced the never-ending hopelessness I used to look forward to!
[–]pwtfab1233 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gyow gnarly grinds ,backside airs smoke like an indian chief all day . No clams in sight..
[–]pushkar_chaudhari2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Though I don't like publicity but yes , this post suits me !
I am a fighter
[–]IconicMen2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Totally man. When we get caught up in the day-to-day, we tend to forget the whole big picture.
[–]Dargalo042 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Appreciate this man
Nice! Thanks for This, OP
[–]AntiAbleism2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely true for me. Thanks.
[–]moneylefty2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like a participation trophy. Yuck.
[–]oldishgeezer2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks OP. I'll be 60 tomorrow I needed this.
[–]xwingdeliciousness2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks OP!!!
[–]Relmtopper2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you brother.
[–]frikabg2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have some issues at work currently which are stressing me out so yesterday after a bad day at work while headed to the supermarket for some food i said to myself: "These issues are causing me too much grief i can't even sleep properly at this point and things will get worse before they get better. Freaking hell the more time passes the more shit i have to deal with but that is only natural i guess. Well atleast it is not as bad as that time when this other horrible thing happened... Or that other fucking shit i mean for the love of god that other experience was really horrible... Wait a minute! What the fuck am i getting so flustered about this current crap??!? Now that i think about it this current situation doesn't even enter top 20 of all the fucked up stuff i endured so far so why do i care so much?" After some reflection i decided to adopt the "i don't give a single fuck" attitude about the current problem and so far it saved me a lot of problems and nerves. Needless to say i slept a lot better last night!
[–]EvidencePlz2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for this. You are equally awesome
[–]OldTimeyENT2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right back at your awesome mother fucking self.
Imagine how better the world would be if men started lifting eachother up, instead of tearing eachother down. A massive consciousness shift is coming I think.
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Working on a gorgeus Saturday, this cheered me up. You rule, OP.
[–]FunkyCannaHigh1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love this, stay positive brother! Thanks for the uplifting message for those who need it and those of us who love seeing others in love with life!
[–]brian5961 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i am awesome, but women aren't.
[–]Justaspareacc1231 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I hate this fucking 'you are great' shit - people who aren't doing well are very aware of that and when you pretend that anything else is the case they know you're full of shit - don't send random 'inspirational' messages to large groups of people you don't know, you'll just remind them of the fact that the message isn't for them, and all messages like this are simply made for people who are already ok to be happy with
[–]pavTheory[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I totally agree that someone may be having a shitty time of life but the post is merely about the fact that you'll come out the other side as a stronger person
[–]Bladewing101 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol are you really congratulating people for not being with women?
No, congratulating my brothers on being awesome, this post has nothing to do with women
[–]man_on_the_loose1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man!!!
[–]TheGameChanger-1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you so much mah man, I needed this type of energy so bad 🙏
[–]Byron_Blitzkrieg1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ooorah, FUCK YEA!
[–]infiniteprogress1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks brother
[–]MarzMonkey0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think my liver is doing as good as me :/
[–]PMmeYOURrareCONTENT0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Survived? Barely so. Did not make me any stronger either. Just a matter of time until life crushes me completely.
[–]ppanthero0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Meh, leave the circle jerk praising for the females. I know that i am awesome, but not for simple existing like a random thot.
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