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DonMelbourne · 2020-07-14T09:36:17+00:00

Sounds good! I also love women. Marriage is not for me, and I know that men are considered disposable by women and other men, so I keep that in mind in my interactions. But women are just people trying to get by, and I judge each one on their individual merits, just like I do with men. It's crazy (and a sign of the times) to treat them as a class rather than as individuals. Take advantage of their friendship, in the nicest possible way, to improve your own life is my thought.

The danger, of course, is making the relationship with a woman the centre of your life. Validation should always come from yourself and how you live your own life. But friendships with women can be beneficial, and the whole purpose of MGTOW is to work to benefit your own life.

Good luck on your subreddit. One thought: do you really want to use the word "boys" in the title? If you're looking for an informal and light feel to the subreddit, then it suits. But if it is more serious, I'd avoid it.

akihonj · 2020-07-14T13:08:00+00:00

Do it if you want to, but try to understand this simple fact.

Vitriol for mgtow is essential, it's the first stage in the healing and freeing process. You can't let it go if you have nothing to let go of.

And Israeli general said once, when you get a bunch of raw recruits you give them hell, from the moment they wake to the moment they fall into bed at night, you never let up.

The begin to curse, first they curse you, then the army, then their country then their mothers, eventually they all curse together.

The point is that for recruits to become soldiers they all have to go through certain things. This is the same for mgtow, some will go through it harder and deeper than others. Eventually most will stumble across this sub and find us more seasoned mgtow who will say, yes that's right now focus on you and let that shit go.

We often try to keep vitriol towards women to a minimum here, and to the state, not because we don't like it but because we know that too much focus on that for all men takes them off their path and into a deep hole.

We don't want that for any man, so while we recognise that a space for men to talk and connect will inevitably have some who still rage at both women and the system eventually towards women and then just the system we have to allow and advise on that otherwise all that happens is an echo chamber of hate, without challenge but we cannot also have an echo chamber of just fluffy days and unicorns because that's not an objective reality either.

We need to have our minds and eyes opened to both extremes and everything in between. If we are to be a welcoming and flaming influence on our brothers who are going through the deepest darkest of all hell at that point in time.

So I'm not saying not to do it, more spaces for men to connect is good and there aren't enough of them but what I am saying then is this sub should be seen as a place where you can go and speak to a brother, one who understands you and your pain and will do all he can yo help. So don't be too harsh on this sub.

CSXcarl · 2020-07-14T13:10:08+00:00

Personally I dont think about women that much. More in the MGTOW monk status, just avoiding all together.

I agree about sandman, he does have a calming and familar sound to come back to for red pills.

As for the subbreddit, sound like a good idea. Personally I would find the name "Billionaire Boys Club" a little off-putting, but thats just me.

onefoxyman · 2020-07-14T14:14:43+00:00

It is done.

The name is FUCKBOYM8INGSTRATEGIES, a tip of my hat to the ladies over at FEMALE DATING STRATEGIES.

Title	Developing
Author	onefoxyman
Upvotes	1
Comments	26
Date	July 14, 2020 9:05 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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