Done with relationships

partsrack5 · 2020-02-05T18:33:04+00:00

I hear you man I completely suck at relationships. I have resolved that I just cannot be in serious close relationships. I am a loner and have been my entire life, it is very hard for me to live differently than that.

GoldJello · 2020-02-05T18:48:39+00:00

what are your ex-so's expectations?

partsrack5 · 2020-02-05T18:59:14+00:00

The women I have been with have been great, loving, caring human beings, but I am autistic and have aspergers and I am a certain way that I can't change.

GTOH4U · 2020-02-05T20:12:45+00:00

Lol, I simply can't be bothered with relationships as it means concessions and doing things I really can't be bothered with.

I think once you're happy and self confident in your own skin.... then when you walk your own path you simply don't look back or care whether anyone follows.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-02-05T19:49:36+00:00

https://twitter.com/kathasty/status/1073008400160694273

Impossible-asset · 2020-02-05T23:02:33+00:00

Congratulations OP!

Man I'm going to have a beer for you tonight.

This is like finding out from the doctor that you don't have cancer.

You realized that you weren't happy with your girl before putting a ring on that and getting into the unwinnable contract.

You broke it off and realized that mgtow is preferable.

So now, cheers to you.

Looking forward, what is the first thing that you want to do in moving towards the happiness that you want to have in life?

DonMelbourne · 2020-02-06T01:34:49+00:00

Attributed to Mark Twain: "A man who picks a cat up by the tail learns a lesson he cannot learn any other way."

Equivalent-Craft · 2020-02-06T02:24:36+00:00

I hear you mate. Same 3 long terms. Never again. At least dont live together...

peguy2000 · 2020-02-05T21:51:47+00:00

The onetitis is strong here. Stop putting her on a pedastel and youll move on. She wasnt a unicorn or great.

Once you accept that you wont feel bad abour calling it off

Erwinblackthorn · 2020-02-05T23:52:17+00:00

Your entire problem is that the woman will always want you to change, but then the second you ask her for anal, it's a bunch of questions and reflects.

You went to counseling? Why? The second you think about going means there's a problem.

If I can guess, I say your real problem isn't that you can't find the right woman. It's that you keep listening to the woman and letting her control you.

The conversations should be like

Her: "honey, you're too messy."

You: "welp, you better keep up then, bitch. If you're not going to be my maid, I'm going to have to hire one, and I just might fuck her in front of you."

I bet they are not. You're probably inconsiderate and try to be a passive nice guy at the same time, to avoid conflict. Thing is, women want that conflict so they can see that their man can still wrestle. They want to see the fight in the man, not the fear or emotion.

If you see zero problem with what you do as a man, there's no reason to change, and there's no reason to keep a woman who thinks she can change you. But you have to let her know that she can't change you, AND letting her know she's the fiancé means she had control before that point.

Never marry a woman unless you've made her more loyal than a dog. There's zero point in a marriage if she has the realistic belief that she can find someone better and also take half your shit on her way out. If you have $10, she's going to see if someone else has $10.01 and go for that guy.

2020-02-07T02:48:43+00:00

That shit was hell on earth.

Every single one of them, and all I enjoyed was sex.

Then when the sex comes with bullshit it's just not worth being in a relationship.

Why put up with drama so I can get laid?

Post-nut clarity is real.

love2travel4peace · 2020-02-07T06:50:08+00:00

I'm glad you woke up. Relationships and women are the shit-stains of life. Do your own thing and be happy.

Blacklab18 · 2020-02-10T00:30:21+00:00

What was her reaction

michaelklr · 2020-02-05T18:00:26+00:00

Sounds like she just wasn’t for you. Don’t let it get you down. Go on a trip.

Title	Done with relationships
Author	Desc440
Upvotes	1
Comments	61
Date	February 5, 2020 5:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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