Falling for a girl

GTFO_Lmao · 2021-02-06T01:44:19+00:00

Tbh she probably just talks to you to kill time. Ease off the enthusiasm and let her contact you. See if you are watering a dead plant.

OkStatistician6364 · 2021-02-06T01:35:38+00:00

IMO things can't go that far off the rails if you know your boundaries (not just what / how they talk, but how much of your time etc.) and you stick to them

If you think you can't stick to how you want to operate, or she's manipulating things, then cut it off.

Usual_Sir · 2021-02-06T02:15:07+00:00

Stick to the mgtow philosophy. Don't go back to the plantation. Unless you're goal is to pump and dump?

MGTOWpiller · 2021-02-06T03:41:20+00:00

Title itself already shows. You don't fall for just "a" girl. Go get another one while you're at it, so you don't end up worshipping and suffer from oneitis. Your time and freedom is precious, don't squander it away on people that don't value it.

sudoertor · 2021-02-06T09:33:40+00:00

A word of advice, step back and see if she initiates conversation. If she doesn't she's just talking to you to kill time or playing you for sport.

Perseus_the_Bold · 2021-02-06T03:09:37+00:00

Should we be worried that this many simps in our midst lurking in our subreddit are telling him to keep talking to her?

treymills330 · 2021-02-06T04:15:04+00:00

Advice you also may need.

If she had no vagina, woulda your interest still be as high?
If ALL SHE HAS TO OFFER is SEX? Cancel er
If uou have to convince her that you're awesome, dont waste your time.
Just keep bettering yourself.

See, i also need this advice so im taking my own too lol

Perseus_the_Bold · 2021-02-06T01:11:56+00:00

Why do you want to be MGTOW?

treymills330 · 2021-02-06T04:19:14+00:00

I felt the need to IMMEDIATELY vote (cut that bitch off) simply because you have to ask us here on reddit.

There's a famous saying that goes like "if you have to ask you already know the answer"

2021-02-06T11:10:24+00:00

It's whatever just dont be a simp. Keep yourself a priority. If y'all hang and have fun that's cool. If she ghosts you it's whatever just move on.

shru_Kay · 2021-02-06T11:14:59+00:00

Don't you have something productive to do in life than waste it on social media?

I mean I understand trying to use it to pass time but damn, people lie in-person over little things and you are here ready to fall for someone over the internet.. bless your heart. (Not being sarcastic)

My advice will be: Follow your heart, make mistakes without regrets but then own the results and don't repeat the same shizzz again.

dachengchuan · 2021-02-06T10:31:27+00:00

she is bored and you are a toy for her; if she wanted sex you would already had it ... leave !

DontBegDontBorrow · 2021-02-06T11:58:04+00:00

You know how women like to friend zone guys like: i think of you as a brother,.. Well treat her like a woman in her 60, be respectful but indifferent.

EcksDee96 · 2021-02-06T12:08:35+00:00

Why dont you pump and dump? Are you afraid you'll get too attached to her?

doloboi · 2021-02-06T23:04:45+00:00

Eh.. if you guys have never hung out in person, I would say falling for her is overdramatic. Sure you think she's probably cool but don't get so attached so early or soon.

mcktj · 2021-02-06T23:33:10+00:00

The advice here is mixed obviously- because MGTOW is your path, you are entitled to live as you want. There are no unicorns in this world but there are people you can have life experience with. What you choose is what is right for you. I don’t believe in completely cutting off yourself from possibility.

However, in my own circumstance I have had my fill and found my contentment in my life by doing what’s right for me. Remember being Red Pilled means you have knowledge, you don’t need to be a dick, tell her what you want - MGTOW is not about hating people for behaving how society has trained them to be, the game will only change when you walk away.

This is MGTOW, there is no right or wrong there is only what will or will not hurt or benefit you. It’s your choice and your path.

Stop allowing people here to be the guidance for your life, regardless of what they say, they have all simped themselves, there are very few 10/10 guys here.

Edit: to add, I am pretty much monk mode now, but still love women, I have female friends, sisters and a daughter (who is red pilled). Just because you are following a MGTOW principle does not mean you have to cut yourself off from interacting with people IF it serves your purposes and agenda.

sevensliders · 2021-02-06T07:10:32+00:00

Did you both meet up?

Solo_and_Simple · 2021-02-06T18:25:19+00:00

I just saw a decent video from Red Pill Men's Health on this subject -- how interacting via online apps can really be misleading. One of the main dangers is that of projection. We don't know much about the person, but the moment there is a sense of connection, we start projecting all sorts of traits and hopes on to the woman. You might check out the video, just to see if it helps. He posted it today, so it should be easy to find.

I'm not going to vote in the poll, because the solution isn't "talk" vs. "leave." The better way to proceed is to raise your level of awareness about what is happening, what the dangers are, and how to manage it.

vCynicalx · 2021-02-06T21:23:25+00:00

Wait you haven’t met her??

Deplorable_X · 2021-02-08T14:27:53+00:00

You will regret it. Take it from someone who has been through life.

dickle_doot · 2021-02-06T05:30:15+00:00

My advice for you to remain MGTOW?

Go fall in love. I don’t care. We will welcome you back when you’re done and satisfied.

If the writing on the wall isn’t enough, then hopefully experience will be.

19780521reddit · 2021-02-06T11:56:02+00:00

i don’t get you guys... if he has feelings for her? why stop it?

19780521reddit · 2021-02-06T11:55:42+00:00

i don’t get you guys... if he has feelings for her? why stop it?

Title	Falling for a girl
Author	slabheadbushcraft
Upvotes	0
Comments	43
Date	February 6, 2021 1:02 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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