Finally made the leap

unmasteredman · 2020-08-05T01:20:50+00:00

Look around. That strange empty feeling without her? That is peace. Fill it with what you enjoy.

newlife_3 · 2020-08-05T00:52:59+00:00

A. Time heals all wounds B. Every time you miss her, remember why you left. C. Embrace your freedom and improve your situation. You have nothing to hold you back now!!!

LeatherGeneral · 2020-08-05T02:31:29+00:00

Break it down to the simplest factors. All you’re feeling are chemicals in your brain. They will flush out in time and you will go back to enjoying your own company without female validation. Yes it feels good to think of all the good times, but think about how much shit you had to endure amongst those good memories... that’s not what life is meant to be.

GlobalAsshat · 2020-08-05T04:01:09+00:00

Red pill yourself so you can recognize female nature and see the toxicity within her behavior. You are the prize so get yourself some standards. Read that entire sidebar.

Dead_Art · 2020-08-05T14:27:31+00:00

It takes a few weeks minimum for your body to get used to not getting it's oxytocin, you're basically going through withdrawal. Just stick it out and you'll start to level out

everydaygreyman · 2020-08-05T14:42:15+00:00

I think of women like a adventure vacation. Having a woman is not a core element of my life. A see women as a temporary luxury/adventure/distraction that will end. At some point I’ll be too old to ski back country, scuba dive, and fuck. I’m at peace with it.

SPI-MGTOW · 2020-08-05T18:49:31+00:00

Life without compromise: Enjoying the freedom in the little things you can now enjoy (deciding what to buy, where and when to go on vacation, when to stay in and when to go out, when to have a beer, what chores to do in the house and how to decorate your house, spending time with whomever you want and not being dragged to boring crap, buying firearms, working as much on your career as you want...)
Not dealing with the b****y mood swings and drama and s**t testing she puts you through.
Squaring-up with reality: What you really had versus what you made your mind believe you had (the fantasy of what she brought to you. Honestly, if she were a man, would you want to live with her? Would she be someone you'd really enjoy? Or was it b/c she had a vag? Also, men tend to look back and overemphasize the good times and minimize the bad times; but from an objective point-of-view, the vast majority of the time was either fights/drama or mediocre boring humdrum. As a percentage of this overall time, most of your time was a waste. Your lifespan is limited (we are all on borrowed time) and when the majority of your time is sunk cost/squandered/negative with a woman, you are a net loser the longer you stay near her. Instead of losing 80% of your life to compromise and bending to her moods, and only being able to enjoy maybe 20%, you can now live for yourself 100% on your own terms.
When you look closely and do an inventory of what she brought to the table, you will see she was nothing but a burden with a bit of sex thrown in to keep you in a crappy deal.

duayneishii · 2020-08-05T02:15:38+00:00

I’ve taken comfort in the self-empowerment. It’s like discovering a new superpower: independent manhood! Being able to define each and every aspect of my life is an absolute thrill. Also, I’m now free to be the very best version of me and travel the path of self-fulfillment. Do you, bro, and don’t look back.

Solo_and_Simple · 2020-08-05T17:48:16+00:00

Ah, that's normal, man. You'll get through it. Whenever you form an emotional attachment to someone, breaking up with them will always cause a very innate, unavoidable feeling of grief. It feels as if you've lost something that was really important, someone you really need.

It will pass, and you will see things more clearly when it does. In the meantime, just keep reminding yourself why you dumped her.

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-08-05T15:10:05+00:00

You realize when the guy does the dumping they go bat shit crazy and love you even more. It makes no sense but thats how they are. Whatcha gonna do when she is begging you back?

Title	Finally made the leap
Author	newlife_3
Upvotes	1
Comments	23
Date	August 5, 2020 12:43 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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