I need advice!

Alecsixnine · 2020-02-24T14:42:22+00:00

Dont do anything. Dont quit your job thats too extreme. Isnt MGTOW about not letting women influence your life?

RealBiggly · 2020-02-24T15:41:31+00:00

First, imagine her with her head shaven and no make-up or high heels. See her as a guy with a squeaky voice and tits.

Then ask yourself if it's actually an interesting person?

Very very few women will past this test if you do it with sincerity.

Sid_Insidious · 2020-02-24T16:24:20+00:00

PART ONE: Know the work rules

You have a female boss, and you are her subordinate. Teaching is a female-dominated profession - and the rules here are the most PC rules in the business. If you can't handle working with/for an attractive female, then maybe this is not a good career for you. There three possible scenarios for you if you fall victim to your urges.

You'll meet the love of your life at work and have a great story to tell. Odds, 1 in million.
You'll pick on some subtle hint and make a move and have a great FWB. 1 in 10,000
You'll misread the scene, or have a work fling go bad and lose your job or career. 1 in 2.

Use the head above your shoulders. Having any ideas about getting involved with a female at work is a completely insane idea. Doing this with your boss is insanity squared.

ON TO PART TWO - Female hypergamy.

If you're very attractive, at BEST she'll see you as the quintessential fuckable pool boy. You are a teachers ASSISTANT and no offense, she's not looking to marry one of those. You might get to be the pool boy for a while, but then she'll have you in the palm of her hand. She could seduce YOU, but as the male, YOU are the one who will be charged with sexual misconduct.

Good luck. You're going to need it. Even if you behave 100% appropriately, you can still get into trouble.

Fuxk1n · 2020-02-24T14:24:22+00:00

Don't do a Dammmn thing. She'll come to you when she does, apply for new jobs.

30203forever · 2020-02-24T14:57:44+00:00

You're weak & the slave of your dick. Are you really that dumb to risk your reputation & the livelihood itself for a piece of ass? If true, no videos will help you 'cause you can't fix stupid - the science isn't there yet... P.S. Don't shit where you eat. Remember that one?

NohoTwoPointOh · 2020-02-24T15:13:29+00:00

Why would you quit your job over infatuation???

Akyra69 · 2020-02-24T15:15:20+00:00

She is not interested in you, otherwise you would already know. She is probably fucking another guy right now. Just find yourself another girl and you'll forget about this one.

Dani_Streay · 2020-02-24T22:03:15+00:00

Women are attractive... That's how it works. Literally billions of years of evolution behind it; you're not turning that off.

And frankly you don't want to. Enjoy their attractiveness, use the energies to work out or whatever.

To my mind MGTOW has nothing to do with attraction. It's about what happens after. If you're thinking you cant control yourself, well of course you can; you're not 6.

If you think you cant resist, then that's just because you haven't learned about yourself. Do NoFap for 1month. That's it. No porn, no jacking off, for a month. After even just a week you'll see the possibility of something, after two weeks the reality will be impossible to ignore...

We don't actually need it anywhere near as much as we think.

DonMelbourne · 2020-02-25T00:43:50+00:00

Marry her. The attraction will stop.

eatturddishes123 · 2020-02-24T15:28:14+00:00

Quitting your job might be extreme but if your good on terms with her then i suggest out get along with her dont make it obvious that you like her. know her behavior if she show her red flags and let you spin in circles(turn you into orbiter) it will turn you off. a little bit hard but that kind of approach works for me im not sure for you though

Impossible-asset · 2020-02-24T17:24:08+00:00

Heres what you do.

Go to work.

Be a consummate cool professional.

Treat it as a job, not a social circle.

That's what you do. Your job.

RedPillMissionary · 2020-02-24T17:33:28+00:00

Focus on being the best you can be at your job and a great example for the kids.

Yami-no-Kami · 2020-02-24T17:41:17+00:00

I'll tell you the same thing that one of the trainers in my workplace told us. Never ever fall for your co-workers or even try to get into a relationship with them. And your superiors are the biggest taboo of them all. It can lead into a big catastrophe on so many levels. From the two of you just feeling wierd and uncomfortable around each other if the feelings don't get returned or the relationship just didn't work out, over these circumstances polluting the climate at your workplace to legal consequences.

So just forget her as a potential partner, just view her as your boss and do your work. Hope I could help you.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-02-24T18:36:27+00:00

Don't shit where you eat.

Treat her like a friend. And tell her that you are single, so if she has any single friends, to hook you up.

That should kill any chance of feelings between you two.

GTOH4U · 2020-02-24T22:26:18+00:00

Fck her behind the bicycle shed. I think that's what you wanted to hear...lol

ToyoAvalon04 · 2020-02-24T22:26:22+00:00

Liston to what she is talking about?

Is is gossip or drama crack?

Does her interestes bring value to a relationship?

just stand back, watch and liston. you will see someones true nature.

trematar · 2020-02-24T23:12:14+00:00

So, the thirst that is your natural attraction to her is the issue. MGTOW's main focus points are as follows:

Don't get married
Don't cohabitate with women

From there, we have 2 subtypes of lifestyle choices:

Monk Mode = Avoiding sexual contact with women
Pump & Dump = Dating/Hookups/Short Term are all ok.

So before we can help you, you need to decide which lifestyle you want. Are you ok with dating and can't help not having sex? are you ok with the risk of #metoo and #falserapeaccusations being a potential threat? Or do you wanna monk mode?

• Whichever you decide will designate how you need to handle your dilema.• If you go monk, discipline your attraction to her by finding something about her (or women in general) that you can't stand and focus on that.Example: You would focus on the fact women are a threat to your lifestyle, or find something about her that annoys you, either way, find something to focus on that deters you from her looks.

• If you go pump & dump, then the solution is easy. Find some chick(s) to bang. Once your thirst is quenched, you won't care about your hot boss. In fact, you can think about her while banging some thot or escort.

• The choice is yours. Some men go monk mode for months/years/forever. Some men turn off monk mode for a while, bang some thots, then turn it back on. You can flex in between if you want. Its your freedom. Just remember, the most important thing about either lifestyle is SELF DISCIPLINE!

• Just remember, your real enemy isn't "women" your real enemy "female validation" ... all of the dumbass fucking decisions that will ruin your life 90% of the time are decisions related to SEEKING female validation! Once you don't care what ANY women thinks .... you are free. So remember, just because your boss is "Hot" ... you cannot let her make you "feel good" in any way shape or form, shrug off any praise or criticism she gives you. Be professional and constantly tell yourself #AWALT.

JD-Anderson · 2020-02-25T01:12:57+00:00

My dick has damaged my life more than anything I could do. When you break away from being a slave to the vag, it is quite liberating.

TomahawkSuppository · 2020-02-25T01:31:08+00:00

Don’t do anything. You don’t shit where you eat, you don’t dip your pen in the company ink and you certainly don’t try to date women you work with. Trust me, the pussy isn’t worth the hassle.

wizwocket · 2020-02-25T02:33:20+00:00

I received this advice, once, maybe it will help; “Don’t eat where you shit, try being a professional, and grow the fuck up.”

Equivalent-Craft · 2020-02-25T06:00:54+00:00

Just imagine shes going to take half of everything you own ruin your career n press false sexual assault charges...

BootyCheeks20 · 2020-02-26T00:17:42+00:00

Just be normal and let things happen. You're interested, and if she's interested then ask her out. Don't push out your natural human instincts.

kingsmith02 · 2020-03-03T19:12:26+00:00

Do you like the job? Consider the fact that you like your job and you don't want to jeopardize it. Literally imagine losing your job....that should help.

801735 · 2020-02-24T14:31:46+00:00

I tried watching more mgtow videos but it is not working .

Whaiy not give snakeoil a try then.

If that doesn't hualp hyu, then give (drilling for) oil a try. If you're still not the richest (wo?)man alive by today evening, maybe morning tomorrow, then I'm afraid the only thing you'll have left to try is the snake. LOL

What should I do ? I don’t want to quit my job over this

Here's an idea, presuming you're not intending to write more, how about ending your sentences with a period? Your're stewdents air goyin' be many good teachered'est with lesbians like you studenting them, don't you think?

Title	I need advice!
Author	lonerstoner5
Upvotes	1
Comments	41
Date	February 24, 2020 2:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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