Ignore, don't hate.

"Ignorance is bliss"

Whatever is distracting you from going your own way, there's no need to destroy it or hate it in particular.

Hate breeds malice, which breeds aggression, which breeds contempt and dissatisfaction.

You got rejected for a job? Gather your learnings, and focus on your next interview.

You got shouted at by your manager? Own your mistakes, be confident about your own self, and continue doing your job to the best of efforts.

The girl whom you are madly in love with left you? Tell her you are happy for her decision, and pick up some interesting hobby in the free time you get.

You can see a pattern here, for every adversary event in your life you can either spend effort and energy lamenting it, or you look it as an opportunity and seize it, using the situation to YOUR advantage.

The foolish person after getting rejected for a job calls back the HR numerous times to tell them the company is a failure and he will encourage others not to join th company. The foolish person gets into a heated argument with his manager over disagreement, because he values his ego too much to let a random person taint it. The foolish person abuses his ex girlfriend, tells her she is making a great mistake and thinks of getting revenge in any way to hurt her.

The foolish person goes down the path where he lets hate overcome his emotions and morale compass. He expects that this hate and anger will bring him satisfaction but it doesn't. It corrupts him to the point where damaging other people's lives holds more value for him rather than moving on.

When you learn to ignore, you know how to make lemonade out of lemons. You improve yourself, and there's no bigger satisfaction than observing how far you have come in the past couple of months or years.

Ignore, don't hate. Self improvement is a trait that has very valuable, long-term returns that you will cherish.

Thanks for reading.