Inceldom Conundrum

WrongTime01 · 2021-03-25T20:39:51+00:00

You are beyond in the wrong sub, buddy

ChronoCube762 · 2021-03-25T20:49:39+00:00

Focus on one thing at a time. You're 18, you're still young. Stop worrying about women for a year. Stop paying attention to all the Justin Biebers who are getting girls. Turn off the media. Get in shape. Study hard in college.

And most importantly: improve your English grammar. People (men and women) are not going to take you as seriously if your command of language is obviously weak. Even if you're currently living in a country where English isn't spoken, good English can open up opportunities internationally.

Flow_Scholar · 2021-03-25T21:04:58+00:00

Start with small goals, and once you trust yourself to achieve small goals, start making longer-term goals. What are your goals for today and tomorrow?

You've made a post asking for help, so you've made a start! "A journey of a 1000 miles starts with a single step." Keep going, brother.

yamahantx700 · 2021-03-25T21:26:46+00:00

Hit the gym. Start small, like losing 10 pounds. Once you've done that, set a new goal, 20 lbs. As you lose the weight, your body will feel much better. You'll even increase your testosterone level. Once you get to a good weight, which could take anywhere from 6 months to 2 years, you can even consider stepping up your clothing game.

At night, study some MGTOW philosophy. If you're just doing it to get validation from women, you'll end up getting used and abused.

I was skinny and a nerd at 18. We all have our own battles to fight. Relax and learn to respect yourself.

LateStageBureaucracy · 2021-03-25T23:58:05+00:00

Homie, you are a man, even if this is a rough patch. There are things a man needs. Sex, and female validation are most certainly not among them.

This is no fault of your own though. Pre-pandemic you probably got used to seeing chicks swarming over select dudes in HS. You probably had some bad experiences further crushing your confidence. Your family and peers likely spoonfed you the idea that finding the "right girl" and getting married. Having the "ideal life". You're afraid if you don't meet this, you'll be a lesser being.

It's all a lie. There is no such thing as an "right girl". Never has, and never will be. Even the happiest couples are rotting away under the surface. It just hasn't shown yet. Even those old couples everyone goes on about are anything but pure. They're codependents, or holding out for their kids.

I won't go into too much detail about the true horror of dating, and relationships, as this sub will convey it well enough.

It's going to be hard, but throw out all you know. There is no happily ever after with a woman. Only with you, and yourself. Once you fully digest the red pill, you are free to do anything you desire.

You'll find your way.

Ok-Collection-8948 · 2021-03-26T03:31:43+00:00

Get in shape (you’ll feel better about yourself) and improve yourself. Don’t concern yourself about what women want. It’s a sign of weakness. If you can’t change something about yourself then learn to accept it.

sootlord · 2021-03-26T18:34:18+00:00

Whats your question?

If your worried about being incel forever. Dont. The older you get the easier pussy gets. Stop wasting your time and stop putting your value over a wet worthless hole.

UnearthlyDinosaur · 2021-03-27T18:37:01+00:00

Stop worrying about women and getting laid.

Flow_Scholar · 2021-03-25T20:41:46+00:00

Just to clarify I want to be competent on my own without letting womans oppinions dictate my value

Title	Inceldom Conundrum
Author	Flow_Scholar
Upvotes	2
Comments	26
Date	March 25, 2021 8:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/mgtow2/comments/md77nq/inceldom-conundrum/
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