Looking for advice

Roastie_haiku_bot · 2019-03-01T02:56:10+00:00

Stay in a hotel tonite, do not answer your fone if she calls.

berlin_throway · 2019-03-06T15:29:13+00:00

If you're from the UK and not some 3rd world country there is no reason not to leave.

You can work in an amazon warehouse or get some other shit job. Homelessness is a bit of a stretch unless you have no planning ability and no grit.

EnigmaticRonin · 2019-03-04T03:16:17+00:00

Uuuuhhh...I can't tell if this is a sarcastic post for the lols, or if you're serious. If you are serious the fact that you don't know what's going on in your situation is concerning...

PubliusVirgilius · 2019-03-02T20:51:53+00:00

Why wouldnt you leave her in that case? I would get it, if you still wouldnt know anything about MGTOW, but since you aware of it, you have no excuse.

TigPlaze · 2019-03-01T19:45:08+00:00

Just dump her.

LavochkinSocDem · 2019-03-01T16:49:36+00:00

Either she's a straight up masochist, or she's in some psychological torment (PTSD? - intrusive thoughts / ruminations?) and the pain helps her escape it for a moment?

She might just be looking for physical evidence that she can use to back up a false allegation though, that's the danger. Does she hit you? Does she self harm? I'd spank her arse - chances are she'd love it, plenty do, but then I'm reckless.

TheDr3amer · 2019-03-01T13:27:27+00:00

This is not MGTOW related.

You haven't given even remotely enough information to get decent, relevant advice.

What you are doing now is wasting your time and our time.

You've got some growing up to do. And let this be a lesson never to depend on a woman (or anyone in general) ever again.

Rayzond · 2019-03-01T13:04:53+00:00

This sounds like more of a TRP question, or psychology.

How is this in any way related to MGTOW?

vito670 · 2019-03-01T07:55:17+00:00

she is subconsciously looking for the dominate man inside you , a violent reaction is what some of the women out there are looking in their men , i guess it's a way of shit testing you ,

here is the trap : if you hit her , that means she get to control you by pushing your buttons as you said

Impossible-asset · 2019-03-01T04:40:10+00:00

With this problem comes the complication of an immigration status, which is pretty serious.

Now, I'm presuming that the Visa status is a work Visa and girlfriend or someone at girlfriends company has the clout to end that Visa sponsorship. OP doesnt say.

But that's the presumption I'll go with since q tourist Visa wouldn't matter, and a student Visa wouldn't matter either in the "leaving my girlfriend could compromise my immigration issue" department.

So. OP, I hate to say this but for the present, you're probably fucked. If it's a work Visa and you're waiting for your green card, you'll have to stick with it until that green card comes through. Think of it as a business decision. You put in the time, and the reward is worth it compared to wherever you come from.

The alternatives are meet someone else and get married. Then youd be free of any girlfriend obligations you're concerned with now.

Or you can return to your home country.

Or you could leave your gf, and just try and make it as an illegal alien, which is a pretty tough way to go.

I'd say even though it sucks right now, just stick with it until you can get the green card through the work Visa program. Its business. Then leave once that task is completed and you'll be free to apply mgtow philosophy into your life.

sparetosser2018 · 2019-03-01T04:14:44+00:00

Please don't take this the wrong way, as I'm not some racist asshole, but perhaps going back to your home country is an answer. If you have the choice of either staying with her, and her abusive behavior, or being homeless, then neither of those are good options. Unless there is some major reason to not go back, you may want to consider that as a solid option.

KhajiitFL · 2019-03-01T03:07:58+00:00

You're here on MGTOW. She's a girlfriend and not a wife. Just go your own way already.

Title	Looking for advice
Author	wasanoob
Upvotes	8
Comments	29
Date	March 1, 2019 2:54 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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