I have never seen anyone talking about it and i believe it is a very important thing that most guys dont get. We must start telling young boys that nobody is allowed to make them sacrifice themselves, or make them help/intervene in every dangerous situation that they happen to stumble upon.

It happens way too often. A post with a fight, or a car crash, or anything dangerous really. A damsel in distress, a woman hit by someone (man or woman) and the crowd goes wild. "Why did no one help her? Men stood there, why did they not help? How could they let this happen to her?" As if every adult male is obliged to be a situational cop, a fireman, a rescuer, a lifeguard.

Don't get me wrong. It is more than nice to help someone and if you choose to help you are a Saint. But we shouldnt let things like that fly anymore. We shouldn't take mens' sacrifice, chivalry, kindness, strength for granted. We shouldn't let society breed this destructive logic "you are a man, you have to help".

Either teach both men and women equally that they have to sacrifice themselves and protect others or stop the moral attacks on men that for any reason choose not to comply to what societal norms dictate they should do.