Which is better? Mentality wise

Colorado-expat · 2020-02-04T16:21:35+00:00

Guys. If you want to talk with a woman it’s not completely insane.

In this scenario saying hello and possibly asking her out for coffee. Women want to date too.

Just use common sense. Don’t be a dick or a wimp.

Don’t marry her. But if a woman makes eye contact with me and there is a little chemistry. Why not.

Impossible-asset · 2020-02-04T21:41:04+00:00

I disagree with the premise of the choices you give.

But to answer the "what do I do?" Its simple.

I ignore her completely, because I'm just not interested. Maybe shes pretty, maybe she has a nice smile. Whatever the list of maybes is, I dont give a damn, I'm not interested.

Heymoewhoison3rd · 2020-02-04T16:13:56+00:00

I'd go with #2, wimp out because not only do you dodge a bullet with her and the inevitabilities that come with relationships. But she also cannot use you to get five mins of fame through metoo or other feministic ideals. Simply because you thought it may be nice to have a conversation with another person.

801735 · 2020-02-04T16:34:02+00:00

You look at her a few times and she glanced back.

"CREEP! (presses the panic button repeatedly, whiteknights converge, forming a circle)"

and then missed the opportunity

To get falsely accused of rape? That's not a missed opportunity from my point of view.

In a way you avoided her by not having confidence

(tradthottery intensifies)

Why don't you go ask this question in r/purplepilldebate instead? Chicks will most likely tell you to "just be yourself" and you'll LOVE FEELING IT.

MyLittlePonyofDoom · 2020-02-04T16:56:54+00:00

I think you should strike up a conversation with whoever the fuck you want to. It’s your life. Maybe see it as a game and see if you can create an alternate image of yourself.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-02-04T16:56:58+00:00

She has a boyfriend.

so_crat_ic · 2020-02-04T19:35:05+00:00

going your own way (in my mind) isn't about ignoring your desires. it's about not needing validation to understand who you are, and what you believe in. it's about accepting any potential rejection as more of a problem with her (maybe has a bf), than to internalize a rejection as something about you.

You are going your own way by accepting the risk of a possible rejection. because it doesn't phase you, and doesn't define you. which in turn, allows you to take more risk. and increase the statistical odds of finding satisfaction.

HatezWomenzCuzIncelz · 2020-02-04T21:37:34+00:00

Are you asking if it's worth the risk? No, relationships are not worth the risk.

Gretatunberg · 2020-02-05T00:37:03+00:00

lol, it wasn't an opportunity, it was a trap.

DonMelbourne · 2020-02-05T02:34:57+00:00

Now comes the choice. Which is better for staying sane and mgtow?

The choice has nothing to do with being MGTOW. In your opinion, what is the connection to MGTOW?

GlobalAsshat · 2020-02-05T03:52:06+00:00

Number 1. You miss any chances you don't take. As a man nobody is going to hold your hand through life and nobody gives a shit about you unless you give them a reason to do so, which means interacting with the world, if that's what you really want. For most people it is, just because of our evolutionary wiring.

As a man you create your life through the habits you put into place on a day to day basis. That's the best way to create a great life... baby steps that over the course of a decade turn you into the man you want, through habits that become automatic over time. Practice and repetition. Find a skill you want that will make you happy long term, and take baby steps to get good.

2020-02-05T12:46:14+00:00

Here's my take: You shouldn't allow your shyness to stop you from getting what you want in life. Now you may not even want that woman or a woman in your life but you want self-improvement and this could certainly help with that.

Someone who's not shy doesn't need to beat that problem and if that's the case then I would not talk to her. But for someone who is, I can tell you that your personal problems will reflect on other parts of your life. I noticed that when I first started setting up my business and this shit came up, when it came to calling prospects I was shy and afraid of rejection which is why I now never shy away from a challenge of talking to a smoking hot chick. Now whether I pursue her even after the conversation is a different matter and so far after gmow I haven't done that yet.

CaptainTarantula · 2020-02-05T14:59:09+00:00

Treat her like a human being. Smile and be friendly but you are under no obligation to let a flame ignite. Its your right (and hers) to GYOW.

Equivalent-Craft · 2020-02-05T22:24:09+00:00

Depends how many drinks iv had i guess lol. We all hav our own personalized versionnof mgtow. Do whats right for you.

Sid_Insidious · 2020-02-06T03:16:25+00:00

3) Remember the fact that no matter how physically attractive she is (that's all you're going on at this point - be honest - you haven't even spoken yet) some man, somewhere, is tired of putting up with her crap. Get your guy friends together and spring for a bottle of top shelf whiskey.

That's what I do.

4) Be honest - you find her attractive and want to bone. So, hire a pro that looks like her and avoid all of the problems getting sex the "relationship way" will result in. If you REALLY want that female-male pair-bond chemical head-soup nonsense, well, then fill your boots.

Metalcrazyx · 2020-02-06T14:24:55+00:00

It's not about confidence. It's indifference. I want nothing from her

Title	Which is better? Mentality wise
Author	trynottoexcel
Upvotes	1
Comments	23
Date	February 4, 2020 4:00 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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