Why do people think there is something wrong with you if you're not in a relationship?

thatMGTOWguy · 2019-05-31T05:49:27+00:00

I am sane and rational if I’m really happy being single not if I’m pretending to be happy or just put on a show for people to see because sooner or later, people clearly see through it and that’s when they believe something is definitely wrong with you.

Regarding what society or people think of me and then me believing or not believing in myself is totally upon me. I mean really what has anyone truly ever done for you. All your darkest times, you have faced yourself and only you can take care of your happiness and have your best interests at heart. Everyone only stands with you and congratulates you, believes in you as long as you’re doing something decent with your life. They don’t exactly love you for what you are, they only love what you can do. Try being jobless or failing back in life to a point where you aren’t good enough and aren’t providing anyone with anything and see where all the love and friendship quickly fades. It’s all about my self esteem and what I tie my self worth to. If I’m basing myself based on what others think of me, it’s a sureshot way of never being fully content with myself and always being unhappy. I speak from my personal experiences.

CDAYt · 2019-06-01T00:32:47+00:00

MISERY 👏 LOVES 👏 COMPANY

ChingaElFilioque · 2019-06-01T00:09:16+00:00

Misery loves company.

TheSud007 · 2019-05-31T21:14:16+00:00

Who cares what society thinks? What have they ever done for you? Not much. Be content with yourself. Don't worry what some stranger thinks. I'm 18 decent looking and in decent shape. I work full time right now in the food industry. There are a few girls there who find it hard to believe that I am not dating or ever have. I do not tell them why I'm on my own just that I haven't found the right one and some other of that BS. After that everyone moves on. What do they think of me behind my back? I don't know and I don't care, they don't sign my paycheck lol. You can never please people they will always find a reason to dislike you or say negative things about you. It's the way most people are

MarqNiffler · 2019-05-31T19:10:36+00:00

They are worried they fucked up and made a mistake. So they get validation by making other people feel bad for being different.

Lhokei · 2019-05-31T16:16:59+00:00

Because misery loves company. They know that "you" are living your life the way you want.

I tell people to fu@k off and mind their own business.

christokrokoo · 2019-05-31T14:28:32+00:00

Because being in a relationship is the most basic human thing we have to do beside eating

Gordon-G · 2019-05-31T06:18:41+00:00

Tell them you don’t want to be unhappy

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2019-05-31T12:48:06+00:00

Ok take a look at the world right now do you really fucking think our society always makes "sane" decisions? "Society" wants you to sacrifice yourself on the alter of capitalism and they want you to be with a woman because you will tend to earn and spend much more if you are with a woman, that does not mean it is good for YOU, society can take a long walk off a short pier as far as I am concerned. Society only cares what you can provide for it, it doesn't care about you, if the powers that be think you should have a girlfriend proudly show them your middle finger and say that most powerful of words NO.

hookbill2 · 2019-05-31T11:39:14+00:00

because it is a societal norm and been drilled into our heads since childhood.

DonMelbourne · 2019-05-31T08:48:33+00:00

How do you learn to believe in yourself when everyone in society thinks there must be something wrong with you if you don't have a girlfriend?

It's the blue pill narrative that we all learn. It's just one of the things that we are brought up believing. One of many!

yermanbob · 2019-05-31T07:20:51+00:00

Sane and rational are relative terms. As a lover of science and philosophy I don't see that many people are rational.

This isn't new in ancient texts normies of the day are refered to a "the rabble" fairly often.

It's not enough to just go your own way, people need to learn how to think for themselves and think their own way.

squiddy_s550gt · 2019-05-31T07:01:50+00:00

Because the guy is relationship material.

No one cares if losers are single, but when they see a decent looking man with a job they can't understand it

TomahawkSuppository · 2019-06-03T12:40:10+00:00

The simple answer? Misery loves company.

Title	Why do people think there is something wrong with you if you're not in a relationship?
Author	CalmElk
Upvotes	22
Comments	19
Date	May 31, 2019 5:34 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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