And in my wife it absolutely kills her libido. She typically doesn't slow it down until the baby is basically walking talking (current kid is 10 months). I want my kids to get all of the benefits of breastfeeding. But the lack of intimacy sucks. She's not a crazy emotional person So she's not driven to initiate any if her hormones don't urge her to it. She wants me to lead and take care of stuff. She's on board. But she's not emotionally needy. So the effectiveness of gaming her is low.

I don't know how to approach sex beyond just sticking to the MAP And being playfully mean.