Marriage in 3 months time and I'm really bothered by the red flags I'm seeing in my fiance, she doesn't notice any of the good things my mother does for her and she's bothered with my mom saying anything good about her kids as she labels it as show off.

Today my mom said that I'm quite decisive in shopping and my sister lifts good weights in the gym. But she also gave her some personally made snacks, pickle (as she likes it) and fruit in a basket when she came over today.

I said that I'll not be able to consider talking about kids as bragging as she's also critical of us wherever needed and I said that I think that she's blowing this out of proportion.

We live in India and we're going to live with my parents, sister and grandmother. My fiancé's mother is traditional and believes in the joint family setup however she always wanted to live separate from her in laws but despite knowing about my situation for the entirety of 1 year of the relationship before engagement, she's constantly nagging me about my mother and sister.

I told her that I'll help her settle in but I'm not really sure if she will actually settle in.

It's too late to call off the wedding now and our parents wouldn't let us do it either, so we're really stuck.

Apart from that she told me about her salary expense breakup post marriage and none of it mentioned spending anything on our house expenses.

She wants to give her mom money, return her sister the money she's borrowed and make an SIP for balance.

I have already told her that I'm taking a home loan but getting money out of her is a pain.

She's a feminist and all but she pays only 10% of our expenses right now because she has to save for the wedding.

I would genuinely breakup with her if she was my girlfriend but I'm really fucking stuck now.

She was PMSing but I'm fucking sick with viral fever but that didn't stop her from fighting.

Women and their emotions take you for a roller coaster with or without consent.

Also, an FYI, her elder sister has already called off an arranged marriage in the final stages.

TLDR - Fiancé is not supporting financially and isn't cut out for living with in laws, keeps picking beef. Marriage in 3 months, stuck af.