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Any guys out there?

November 10, 2022
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hey bros, first post here and new to reddit. I recently moved to a new city and have gotten into going to the gym and bulking and whatnot. My job is relatively boring office kinda shit and i’m wondering if anyone is down to shoot the shit over like whatsapp or discord (or even reddit chat). Been kinda lonely in this new city and having some depression feelings and it would be cool to have a buddy or two to send memes and workout stuff to each other, or whatever works. Figured I would try this since I think guys on this sub seem like minded. DM me

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Title Any guys out there?
Author justbatinbruhhh
Upvotes 23
Comments 4
Date November 10, 2022 9:55 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/MenSupportMen
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MenSupportMen/any-guys-out-there.1139076
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Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/mensupportmen/comments/yrsypt/any_guys_out_there/
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[–]SNAiLtrademark 7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Firstly: great job reaching out, and trying to find someone. Being lonely is hard, especially in a new city.

You don't need internet friends right now, you need people time.

  • join a club
  • a bowling league
  • a bocce league, a cornhole team
  • take group cooking lessons,
  • join a church or local satanist temple or cult of crossfit
  • actively try and make friends at your gym
  • even check Craigslist in your area

I know it can seem daunting, but it's really not as bad as your depression will make it out to be. Most the people in those groups are people like you, looking to make friends and meet anyone.

Good luck, I believe in you

[–]GM_Timephone 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

To second this, I had no friends in the city I live in because they all moved away and I'm not super good at making new friends. My wife and I joined an axe throwing league (neither of us had ever done it before) and we quickly made several friends who we see regularly even though we no longer throw axes.

Definitely join a group or a "drinking" league of some kind. You don't have to drink and they're full of adults looking to make new friends.

Good luck, brother.

[–]Sydnaktik 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I also highly recommend meetup.com wherever you are. Most cities have a "new in town" group that you can join that meet regularly. You can go there and make some new friend. I do this every time I move someplace new.

[–]justbatinbruhhh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

thank you man, I think you’re totally right. I’m going to push myself to get out there.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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