I only lurk there but it seems like basically all the posts are men blaming women and particularly feminists for their problems or trying to justify having a hatred or even “nice guy” attitudes towards women. I am all for having a strong brother ship with other men but it feels like that sub is just really a toxic place overall even to other men. I’ve seen them deny the existence of white privilege also despite the fact that I’ve seen a lot of white men admit that it does indeed exist, and growing up in a white family it’s kind of obvious how it does exist. They also seem to likely support racism considering they deny white privilege and honestly some of the stuff they say is just disgusting and close to r/redpill type bs.

I feel as men acting like those types does not get us anywhere as let’s face it we have been the top dogs of society for basically forever, we really have nothing to complain about. Sure we all have our individual problems and issues but blaming women and feminists for every last thing won’t fix any of that.

As a man I respect women a lot and it just saddens me that other men prefer to victim blame and disrespect women simply because they are women. Yes some women hate us but everyone is allowed to dislike someone. We can’t force people to love us and when they don’t like us back blame women for being a variety of bad words.

To me honestly a lot of men give us all a bad rep by being creepy and aggressive and then blame women for their inappropriate behaviors.