Why do random people touch me?

Arguesovereverythin · 2023-05-12T04:45:20+00:00

I don't think anyone here can explain why random strangers walk up to you and squeeze your biceps. That sounds incredibly odd and would weird me out too.

A stern "Please don't touch me." followed by a swat with a rolled up newspaper might be appropriate here.

Desserts_i_stresseD · 2023-05-12T17:31:06+00:00

Is OP Johnny Bravo and doesn't know it? All jokes aside, this is strange behavior if it happens from literal strangers regularly. Maybe you just have an approachable appearance? Some visible tattoos and black clothing might help deter people. Otherwise just ask them quickly and politely not to touch you. If they continue, say it firmly, and if they don't stop you can shove them off you.

Yesyesnaaooo · 2023-05-12T08:10:22+00:00

I hate to break it to you - but have you considered that you might just be really really attractive?

Cyb3rd31ic_Citiz3n · 2023-05-12T11:48:32+00:00

Not saying it's alright for them to do this, but it's probably because they find you attractive and approachable (emotionally, physically or spiritually).

You can tell them that you don't want them to touch you (be polite).

If they continue tell them firmly, no.

If they continue, take it to your immediate manager or superior and put in a complaint. No one is entitled to your body, bro

ZulutheZebra · 2023-05-12T12:58:43+00:00

It is a bit unusual that it happens regularly in public; in a friend group it’s more understandable. With my friends it’s not unusual for me to comment on how they are looking fit etc, usually as a conversation starter or if I notice they are working hard in the gym. I definitely don’t touch them though unless I’m drunk, and that’s more of a side shoulder hug when I’m really far gone and they just laugh usually.

Strangers feeling you up is not cool though; my suggestion would be to ask one of these strangers why they felt comfortable enough or forward enough to touch you. Most of the people will get awkward but I’ll bet a few of them will tell you what’s causing it; my guess is it’s a vibe you are subconsciously giving off. Either way once you pinpoint the cause you can take steps to have it not happen any more.

Title	Why do random people touch me?
Author	DishPiggy
Upvotes	14
Comments	6
Date	May 12, 2023 3:05 AM UTC (6 months ago)
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