Just need to let it out

Plus_Ad_4041 · 2024-06-19T23:17:53+00:00

Hang in there brother. Life goes sideways sometimes and it doesn't mean that life is over. You are in a storm and the storm will end eventually and you will come out of it better off. If you fiance left you because you lost your job she is not the one. Consider that one of the good things that happened to you. You will bounce back from this. Just put one foot in front of the other. Give yourself some grace and some credit for taking care of your dog and your dad. That's what a real man does. PM me if you need someone to chat with, no strings attached. Hang in there, time heals and things get better.

Ac760a · 2024-06-20T03:30:15+00:00

Thanks everyone. Just been trying to build my life back for 5 years. Lost everything and anytime I get ahead I'm negative again. I work two full-time jobs and It still isn't enough. I think the sleep deprivation just is getting to me making me emotional a little

Critical-Limit3 · 2024-06-20T02:10:53+00:00

Be strong, i understand how it feels, as if everything you cared about crumbles like sand between your fingers, and yet the more you try the denser each movement gets. Try seeking professional help, its not a magic spell that will make it all better, nor can they give you a prescription for the sun to come up; but even just having someone who you can count on consistently and just complaining to them for a while, helps the load be lighter. During covid i lost my startup, it was my life's passion work, then my marriage went under, a close member of my family got severely ill, my economy dried up and i ended up all alone as my close friends are all abroad chasing their dreams... I know it doesn't feel like it, but your sunny day will come, just keep your spirits high and your head raised, there is always tomorrow

wolfoftheworld · 2024-06-23T04:12:17+00:00

Bro. I feel you. I hate it when the world crashes in on you when you're already vulnerable.

Do you live near any hot springs? If so, take a nice soak and treat yourself. Random suggestion. But the magnesium and other minerals in hot spring water help the body immensely.

t_11 · 2024-06-23T15:09:54+00:00

No that's not how life is supposed to be, but you are strong. You have the right to grieve for your losses, but you also have a clean slate to pick up the pieces and reinvent yourself. That's also OK, hard but it's yours to win.

Engorgedan_B_Penison · 2024-06-24T15:25:17+00:00

Everything in life is temporary and ultimately unpredictable. I’ve found that the world I see is often significantly different from hour to hour even. Grief, depression, fear, and rage often create the illusion of “it will always be this way” when that is absolutely never the case. Pain and pleasure arise and pass away if you let them. In my experience, purpose and appreciation for life are the things that stick around the longest.

Rest will come and this period is temporary. Happiness, beauty, renewed purpose and a richer, more beautiful experience of life will come. Until then, be kind to yourself and hang in there. Thank you for taking on responsibility and taking care of others as a great man does. Much love.

Title	Just need to let it out
Author	Ac760a
Upvotes	23
Comments	7
Date	June 19, 2024 9:51 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MenSupportMen
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