I believe a man should be all encompassing. I do not rely on my fiance for anything. I do not expect her to make me a sandwich or clean the house. With my fiance I am the first one up. I make the coffee. I make breakfast. I walk the dog. When I come home, I clean the house. I mop the floor. I prepare all the stuff that we need for the next morning. I'm currently on the out of work list for the union, but when Im working it still remains the same. I personally do not mind doing everything. In fact I enjoy that my base line is to do everything, so if for whatever reason I have to go back to being poor it will not break me.

Why cant I be honest about my opinions. That as a young man I had to watch women my age hook up with older men who had more access to resources than me. Could take them to more places than I could. Why cant I be vocal that those same women are now childless, relationshipless and significantly used. Why is it a misogynistic point of view when its empirical data based on a subjective experience. Why cant I say a womans peak is diffrent than a mans. Why isnt my experience and the experience I share with many many other people valid?

Despite the name calling, despite incel slander, despite being called a misogynist, despite all of these things, I shower my soon to be wife with love and protection. I still try to elevate my friend circle and my community. I still hold the door for everyone but specifically women. I'm still curteous to everyone I meet but specifically women. I still get called toxicly masculine when I personify anything but that. Should I let her cook my coffee. Should I watch the mother of my child work harder than me. Should I let her change the cat box or mop with the fumes. Would these things make me just masculine? I just dont get how an app full of educated degrees could label me something like toxic, or call my ideologies toxic when I share no commonality with anything toxic at all.