By far the most shameful yet acceptable terms used to describe a man and his character, the terms BDE ( Big Dick Energy) and SDE ( Small Dick Energy) are confidently and regularly used by women to judge men.

It's a weird world we live in, where a man is judged on something that he has absolutely no control over, and this is not only limited to our penis size but our height as well.

Its constant use in multiple piece of media and by actual people in the everyday life, proves of the viciousness of today's culture where men can be attacked on everything.

And when people tell that men are the ones who are insecure because of their average or less than average size, it boils my blood. What else would you expect? The constant use of the term in a humourous manner, to deliberately make men feel incompetent in every piece of media and by women, what reaction would they expect from men ?

I would love if women were shamed on their weight, height, cup size, their vaginas etc, even the scales a bit. But realistically that ain't happening, because women are the most protected group, free from any criticizitions. The most funny thing is the one thing women get absolutely mad about being criticised, which is their weight, is easily controllable, yet they go out of their way to protect themselves because women don't know the definition of accountability of their actions.

I don't care whether it's a joke or not, don't bodyshame men, don't bodyshame anyone. But if they aren't listening, definitely do throw a comment back at them.

If you have anyone in your life, still using these terms or basically any other methods of bodyshaming men, I would suggest educating them ( though I believe that won't help ) or straight up cut any form of contact with them.

Good day to all of you.