listen ,man can still earn respect even when he is just out of sewerage he doesnt need tuxedo yes its true ,basic grooming is enough and when men start indulging in looks over substance for easy validation, they have already planned to declare their weak presence, now learn to command respect with your presence and make validation chasers jealous and disagree with your opinion, so yes it is unmanly for men to excessively groom and even is part of indulgence, nature has already made you good looking now focus on top organ 🧠 to attract women(if that's your concern) not validation.

i understand looking presentable matters but if your appearance is only thing you have then it stops being self care and turns into indulgence, self doubt and before someone jumps in for defending their worldview "its about freedom" so under that

freedom isnt same as direction and even if someone is sharing their perspective it doesnt give others right to avoid accountability real men(purpose driven) dont argue for indulgence because voicing for indulgence makes us seek validation which weakens men' unity by making us divided.

we arent machine that can have flexibility to interchange gender behaviour and stil be respected by trying to get that you will be perverting your nature,today not even scientists will think twice before betraying men and support indulgence.