Child care

Rolaid-Tommassi · 2021-03-26T04:37:27+00:00

I've been asking men this question for many years and the response I always get is that they would happily swap their job to stay at home and raise the children.

suzuki1369 · 2021-03-26T07:13:32+00:00

They complain staying at home is the hardest than working but when a man wishes to take care of the kids it's suddenly the easiest job, even in the eyes of ones who said it's the hardest at first

omidoggo · 2021-03-26T05:00:53+00:00

U dont see guys bragging abt how they provide everything for their families right? its cus its obvi and women who put themselves higher cus they take care of the children know its easier but are insecure abt it

HeadHigh71 · 2021-03-26T10:01:35+00:00

Wake up the kids, get them showered and dressed. Make breakfast. Walk them to the bus stop. 8 hours later pick them up. Make dinner, slap a disney movie on. Bed time.

Yeah I think I can trade my job :/

Accomplished_GoalY · 2021-03-26T09:01:04+00:00

I haven't seen any pressure for men to stat home and take care of their kids the way women were for ages.

This is because social movements over the last few decades were never about creating equality in any way, shape, or form. They were 100% about taking away every possible competitive advantage men enjoy, while giving absolutely zero competitive advantages women enjoy to men.

These people never cared about fairness or doing the right thing. They only cared about how much they hate men and trying to actualize their innate contempt for males.

Staying home and taking care of children is a highly desirable benefit. One which 84% of women say they aspire to: source

If this push was about equality, people would be actively trying to give women dangerous, menial, and demanding jobs, while giving men the same privileges and benefits women enjoy. Instead, at every possible turn they fight tooth and nail to make absolutely sure that men do not enjoy the benefits of actual equality. Inequality harming men and benefiting women has doubled or tripled in many areas in just the last two decades as a result. Society isn't trying to solve inequality. It's trying to engineer absolute privilege for women in every dimension under a false flag.

chindongman · 2021-03-26T14:46:40+00:00

I was stay at home dad for six years. It was lot more work than I thought it would be but far from the hardest job in the world. My wife at the time berated me several times a week for not having the house spotless or said I was phoning it in if I did not cook elaborate meals. As a man I was brought up to never act like that towards a woman. It was the only job I've ever had that brought any fulfillment to my life.

suzuki1369 · 2021-03-26T14:51:26+00:00

I would much rather be a stay at home father than work. Think about it(past the age of 3ish), you wake them up, feed them, get them dressed and get them to school or something. You then do some laundry but not all of it since your partner needs an equal share of work, the dishes, maybe clean a little, and then eat lunch and do whatever you want for the next few hours. You then pick your child up, make dinner and do whatever you want. For another couple of hours. Every day. You have almost 5 hours per day to do what you want minimum. Why would I not want that compared to a 9-5 office job where I am uncomfortable and have to dress up every day? There are no disadvantages to being a stay at home parent. You get the free time for doing less work and not making money. I don't understand these people

sofjiihdd · 2021-03-26T17:09:43+00:00

This is because a lot of people see men as inadequate caregivers

HeWhoIsBearded · 2021-03-26T12:37:53+00:00

My second two children were born when I worked in a larger company and I told them I would be taking my two weeks annual leave the moment my two weeks paternity leave ended. I really enjoyed the chance to be there for the first weeks.

I'm a father who raised his children and I have no time for anyone who dismisses me for such.

Title	Child care
Author	Aniik13
Upvotes	21
Comments	11
Date	March 26, 2021 4:31 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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