Ive seen this story a few times with family and friends: The man is sole provider, working overtime or 2 jobs, he’s exhausted so the time after work spent with kids hes maxed out and doesnt have the energy to be present. This leads to a loss of connection with his kids. And of course his wife. They divorce. She keeps the house usually, and the kids , hes left alone, homeless, no friends or family. He becomes suicidal and attempts or actually goes through with it . This has happened to two people close to me recently.