Gay people have homophobes Black people have racists Feminism has....MRAs? I doubt MR is a polar opposite of feminism

I have to prefix this:while not pretty,we're doing a good job here

I'm gay myself,and I have to admit:I owe people like Rick Perry a lot of the freedoms I currently have (besides the obvious people to thank,like law makers and protesters) It sounds stupid,it sounds insane - but it's true

Racists like the KKK and homophobic people like Rick Perry act like a softening blow to the people who share the same ideas;they are extreme and insane,making the run of the mill people softer to the idea of equality

At the same time,they acted like a dam,stemming the flow of equality and preventing an overflow and elitism such as we are currently seeing in feminism,offering criticism,which while often fallacious,sometimes held some merit of value

So where is this opposing force of feminism? MRAs is more about rights for men rather then opposing feminism and wouldn't have any significant counter-weight due to negative MRA stereotypes by feminists,religious people? too politically incorrect

So,all I can say to my fellow MRAs,keep up the good fight,ignore the hate/abuse,we'll get there someday

edit:flaired with "discussion" rather then "feminism" because I'd like to hear other thoughts on this,and hopefully get a healthy discussion