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Help for Men Who Are Being Abused

TheAndredal

March 30, 2020
81 upvotes
/r/MensRights
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Title Help for Men Who Are Being Abused
Author

TheAndredal

Upvotes 81
Comments 5
Date March 30, 2020 12:20 AM UTC
(6 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/frgkra/help_for_men_who_are_being_abused/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/help-for-men-who-are-being-abused.1199495
https://theredarchive.com/post/1199495
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Comments

[–]Inner-Turnover 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have looked everywhere for years. There is no help for men. Especially when a man is disabled from the abuse.

[–]TheAndredal[S] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know it is 2 years old, but i still think it will help people.

[–]JimiStark 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you for posting this. I'm going through a divorce from an actual sociopath.
My daughter and I are living at my mom's now.
The ex is basking in her newly gained STD, while everyone in my town thinks I'm a horrible, abusive person.

My daughter and I both agree on the bullet points.

She cheated 11 years ago in front of my daughter.

She and her friend had to make "competing" noises to drown them out.

She was only 7 years old at the time.

Seriously messed up person.

[–]DignifiedAlpaca 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You may want to consider posting this on our sister subreddit (brother subreddit?) https://www.reddit.com/r/Maledomesticviolence/, although that subreddit is kind of dead to be honest.

[–]beeen_there 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You want to protect your children. You worry that if you leave, your spouse will harm your children or prevent you from having access to them. Obtaining custody of children is always challenging for fathers, but even if you are confident that you can do so, you may still feel overwhelmed at the prospect of raising them alone. If you and your children think you're being abused now, just wait 'til the family court get involved.

Raising awareness of DV inflicted on men is important, but the reality should be made clear.

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