How can we make a change?

trash62 · 2020-09-15T21:16:37+00:00

We can't. No one gives a shit about men's issues. We are disposable, do you expect people will care about something they throw away?

What we can do, is refuse to go along with it. Mock any man who pretends to be a feminist in order to gain female validation and reach the younger boys, let the boys know they aren't crazy, it's called gas lighting. Feminists do not mean them well.

Basically, cancel feminism.

Mock feminists when they protest, (the same as men are mocked/ignored)

Congratulate women on becoming disposable when you hear of them doing things such as being astronauts or police women.

Feminists are effective in protesting (what we used to call bitching) because women are valued. If people valued women the same as they value men, no one would give a shit about them or their causes either.

Neveah_Hope_Dreams · 2020-09-16T02:36:57+00:00

Speak out. And don't stop. You will be silenced and people will not want to listen but don't let them bring you down. Carry on speaking until they stop and listen.

Speak to your local MP or Parliament in regards

Educate people. Expose people of their sexism and double standards

You an organise protests with fellow activists and people who want to help. Make sure you keep yourself protected and aided so you can be protected from any backlash and attack.

Don't support feminist groups and activists who clearly advocate for misandry.

We can do it. I know it's hard to believe but it's possible. Look at the civil rights movement. It seemed impossible but bloody hell they got there. Thanks to the activists of the civil rights movement black people have achieved the rights they deserve and they have got the biggest support. There are many people who want to support men's rights out there. They are just too afraid to say so.

jukutt · 2020-09-16T07:04:45+00:00

Referring to the title:

You can do your part by being unbiased and able to distance yourself from the problem. In the same way in which we will never understand paedophiles who rape if we do not try to understand all (their) positions, one will not be able to solve this issue if they are biased to either the woman or men side and are not able to distance themselves from their own individual view point. The only way to solve such issues is being the bigger "man" and do the first step.

You can use a lot of posts of this sub as learning material, since they are biased, guided by emotions instead of reason, and seemingly only seek to create outrage instead of solutions; similar to what you will experience in all the female subreddits.

Further, distance yourself from the Internet and try to find people in real life with which you can talk about such things. In my experience the demographic of people on the Internet (in such subreddits) often inhabit extremes, and will skew your view of the actual problem.

Lastly, learn to argue correctly and in good faith. Arguments are your shield and sword in this problem, so keeping your cool even when being faced with childishness or bad faith, being informed and being distanced from your emotions and position are crucial, if you want to learn and teach on how to solve this problem.
Here is a reference for the male side: https://www.reddit.com/r/rbomi/wiki/main

I haven't found (or looked) for one for the female side, yet.

Cheers!

Long-Chair-7825 · 2020-09-15T21:05:52+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/wiki/faq#wiki_7._i_want_to_be_active_and_help._what_can_i_do.3F

Someone else like u/the-tin-men could probably tell you more.

Title	How can we make a change?
Author	regular-doggo
Upvotes	34
Comments	9
Date	September 15, 2020 8:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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