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How dare we have a preferences.

Arch_Stanton1862

May 8, 2022
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https://phys.org/news/2022-05-high-maintenance-red-flag-dating.html
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Title How dare we have a preferences.
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Arch_Stanton1862

Upvotes 16
Comments 8
Date May 8, 2022 5:47 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/ul724k/how_dare_we_have_a_preferences/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/how-dare-we-have-a-preferences.1115022
https://theredarchive.com/post/1115022
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[–]63daddy 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why would anyone seek out a partner who is high maintenance? What’s the point?

The author is basically criticizing men for being lower maintenance, but this is actually an advantage for women.

I think the underlying tone is to promote hypergamy, it’s basically saying women should get to date up, but men should just accept women who are high maintenance.

[–]Arch_Stanton1862[S] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly this. Thought the same thing but couldn't find the words for it.

[–]fonzarelli24891 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I will fix the first sentence for them high maintenence refers to a woman who is a selfish asshole who places her wants ahead of other peoples needs.

[–]irrelevantmoniker 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"reign themselves in to appease men: not complaining, not demanding too much, not expressing needs, not having expectations for emotional openness or fulfillment."

And men don't do anything to appease women in her world? What colour is the sky?

[–]63daddy 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, kinda has the attitude men should feel honored to provide for and take care of women, even if they are high maintenance. How dare a man think he deserves to get anything out of a relationship!

[–]rabel111 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The adoration of women is a basic human right? But only for narcissistic women?

[–]Senpai_Sees_You 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"All to ensure a man's comfort."

You mean attention. To ensure a man's attention. A man won't waste both of your time if you have standards he is not willing to meet for a relationship.

[–]There-is-No-Beyond 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just a thought that I thought I would share here: That whole argument thingy about women have sex with who they want and men have sex with who they can is a double edged sword...just cause a guy fucks a girl doesn't mean that he is interested in her at all. Guys seek validation knowing that women are (read: used to be) choosy about whom they have sex with. Honestly I lost interest in sex once hook up culture took off. The fun was gone. The challenge wasn't there any more. Women are too easy.

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